What about doing both? My brother did that when we had Palo's reservation. He first went to our scheduled meal, ate very lite. Then we had late Palo reservation. That might work for the AP - go for the show, have a drink and appetizer, and then go to Palo's. Or Parrot's might be even better as the show doesn't start to later - that might be a long night. Either way, make it the best of both worlds! If you only have 3 days, might as well make the most of it! Lisa