Walking distance and convenience is a big factor for us too. We are also DisneyLAND people (we're shoot for 3 visits a year since we live only about a 5 hour drive away) who stay across the street -park vue, desert inn or carousel being are favorite choices because you can be at bag check in just few minutes walk and you can be at a resturant or the pool in a handful of steps. All of those have small pools so are used to that.
This was my thinking:
CSR: Theming is not unique for us. We are Californians so Aztec/ hacienda theming is pretty meh. Also I was put off by it being a convention hotel and how that might take me out of the Disney bubble feeling. Also not much greenery or shade and it might be hot when we are going.
CBR: Fun theming, very fun looking pools, but huge. It will be far from something I want to use regularly (food, mug refills, or pool, or bus stop). How cranky am I gonna get if my feet hurt coming back from the parks and I get off the bus and still have long walk to get to my room only to realize I want a drink and now have another long walk. Nope.
POR: Fun theming and very unique. Food court options and make your own pasta station are right up my ally. Still a large resort though and when they share busses with FQ (during slow times) it is the second pick up meaning that I could get stuck wait for more than one bus or not getting to sit.
POFQ: fun theming-I always want to go to New Orleans. Small quiet resort that would allow me to do a standard room and still be conveniently located. Small pool -though if it really mattered we could walk over to the POR pool (but then we we lose the convenience factor). New renovated food court has the very best food options for our tastes and also has the make your own pasta station. If shared bussing it would be the first I up but that would mean I would be on the bus a bit longer. Not looking forward to long bus rides.
I have also always been intimidated by the size and increased difficulty maneuvering Disney World compared to what we are used to which is why our first trip will be in October. We decided to go with POFQ for that reason. We are less likely to get a deal or
free dining, and the pool is smaller, but since I like to stay no more than 5 minutes walk to the parks I can't imagine staying that far or farther to get to the amenities (food and drinks, pool, and bus stop-I want to be fairly close to all of it) let alone the distance to the parks. I also don't want to have to get a preffered room. Standard rooms at POFQ are pretty close to the main building from what I can tell from maps and feedback from people who have stayed there. Riverview rooms are the farthest from most amenities (but also the closest to the boat to DS). That means that POFQ standard rooms fit the bill for us.