We bought SSR in 2005 because of the Friends and Family discount, the theming, and the extra years. We like "getting away from it all" when we leave the parks and we've never minded taking the bus. We stayed at POR for years and SSR had the same tranquil feel. Having stayed at POR we've never felt SSR was too big. We also now enjoy the easy walk to DTD. As our kids get older (one in college, one finishing up high school) I suspect that we will use the spa more as well. We never considered VWL...we live in Colorado and the theming, while nice, is just like being here. Boardwalk was too busy for us, Beach Club was considered a bit, but we ended up with SSR due to the reasons above. I think, though, that you cannot really go wrong anywhere.