Thank you. The hardest part to get past was the guilt. I was a manager, and many of those who died were there because I had hired them, or to perform work for me while I was out of town.
I have so many stories about friends from that day.
One person that worked for me was saved by another because of a call to pick up a bagel at one of the street vendors. The 5 minute delay to buy the bagel saved his life. He later witnessed the jumpers, and hasn't been the same since.
Another friend was trapped in an elevator. He didn't know where he was or what was happening, but the lights were out and he was alone in the car. After over an hour, the doors opened and a fireman told him to run out of the building. He had no idea what was going on, but he ran. He did not know that planes had struck the buildings, or that the other tower had already come down. He made it out just minutes before the North Tower collapsed. His story was recounted in one of the TV specials.
Another friend was trapped in the building on the 95th floor while it burned. We used two way pagers, and he was "talking" with a co-worker as he tried to get out, but the stairwells were completely obstructed. After determining that they could not escape, they moved into an office furthest from the fire. The last message that he sent was, "The fire is here." I still remember the day that he told me that his wife was expecting their first child. They had been trying for so long.