Where do you draw the line?

[okeydokey]

I don't think so. She was inviting people who she hasn't seen in years and won't see again in God knows how long, and leaving people off who she does have a relationship with because she can only invite a certain number. I was suggesting maybe she should rethink if she is inviting the people who are truly important to her. Sometimes you can get so caught up in it all that you don't see the big picture. I think I'm close enough to her to offer a suggestion, not saying she needs to take it, just giving another scenario. If it she was an acquaintance who I was calling to give my thoughts or suggestions, then yes, I think that would be rude. Also, who cares if people who she never sees, doesn't have a relationship with, and won't have one with in the future are offended?

But it's not your wedding, therefore not your business. Your daughter can choose not to attend.

 

[Stella3]

But it's not your wedding, therefore not your business. Your daughter can choose not to attend.

I agree with you, but the OP obviously thinks she has a good reason to be pissed because she paid for a DVC room for the newlyweds AND her DD might be taking some amateur pics at the wedding.

 

[C.Ann]

I was suggesting maybe she should rethink if she is inviting the people who are truly important to her.

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Please tell me you didn't really do this..

You are not the bride, you are not the mother of the bride, nor are you the person paying for this wedding.. I don't care how close you are.. That is tackier than the original reason you started this thread!

Maybe you should "rethink" attending this wedding yourself.. You have become far too involved in issues that you really have no business commenting on and that leads me to believe you are not going to be able to attend this wedding without showing your displeasure - either in words or actions.. It might be best for all concerned if you just politely declined the invitation..