When Friendships Fall Apart

[keypooh90]

Ok so im sitting here crying at the moment.

I had a best friend ( we met on the first day of kindergarten) and we were thisclose from that day to the beginning of freshmen year. We were at each others house every weekend and we spent summers together. She even went to Disney World with me three times over summers. She helped us move and paint and lay flooring in our new house. We made build-a-bears for each other in fifth grade.

Fast forward to ninth grade. We were off and on and would get into little fights. She would ignore my invites, making up excuses, never came over.

Same thing happened last year ( 10th grade) and me and my other friend and her were working on set crew for senior play and Rachel ( BFF) tried to boss me and Charlotte around and tell us what to do.

This year i keep trying to invite her and all and back in the beginning of september she sent me a text telling me i deserved to die because i was crazy and she hated me.

Then i have this friend from the UK that i met online and we are so close that we call each other adopted sisters. We text, email, IM, and write each other. Friday we had this big fight because of something stupid i did that really hurt her. We are talking but at the moment she is really upset and sad because of me.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I'm really sorry.
I broke off my friendship with my best friend of 3 years over the summer. She probably thought my reasons were really stupid,but the little things in our friendship never mattered to her. :/

I really hope your two friendships can get back.
If you want to ever talk,just PM me.

 

[Fluffaball]

I am so sorry. It is hard when friends have fights. I would if I was you try and ask you friend what you did for her to hate you. As for the online friends keep talking that is the best thing to do.

 

[PowerMonkey]

aww, sorry to hear... you just really have to talk about it.. find out why your friends dont like you and try to make some type of truce.. if you guys do things like ignoring eachother, youll just hold a grudge with eachother and thats just kinda a dumb thing to do

 

[Sparx]

I'm sorry

 

[::Snow_White::]

 

[keypooh90]

Thanks guys. Me and Kelly ( my online buddy) are fine now.

 

[AngelInDisguise]

I'm so sorry
I had to break a very good relation because of some, well personal things.

 

[disney100666]

I'm sorry, I've lost a BFF in 5th grade, she just changed into a tatle tailing loser, and I thought she had stopped and she's in a few of my classes but she's back in the mediling buisness again, and really upset my friend.

 

[keypooh90]

Aww...hugs Bridget

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Im dealin with that right now...

My best friend is turning out to be..well..really clutsy and off somewhere its like shes on drugs or something (even though i know shes not)
when i tell her my deepest darkest secrets she ends up telling them to my crush on "accident" AND when my crush and i went to the movies one time i was in the car and he called and my mom thought it was my other friend so she started saying "Tell her were busy" and all of the sudden my friend started gigglin the way she always does (which annoys the heck out of me) and she screamed "IS THAT HIM!?" Im just so upset right now because she used to be my best friend and NOW im getting SOO ANNOYED by her and when her and her little sister see each other they fight..Not like normal fights but like 'OWWW" and their gigglin wile they fight.. Its so stupid and i hate it because they do it everywhere and i just.. I dont know i really dont want to be friends with her anymore but i cant just do that

Im a horrible friend

Since this is my first year of middle school i have met brand new friends who are awesome they understand my secrets and they dont giggle crazy and scary and they dont get lost in the blue they are true friends i just..

and this one girl is in 2 of my classes also kinda annoys me because she gets all snobby all the time "OMG I DIDNT GET IN IM SO MAD!!" and i said "Well.. you got into the side people so if someone cant go then your in..i didnt even get in.." and she said "YOU JUST DONT GET IT DO YOU!?" and walked off in a storm..

and then 5 minutes later she like hugs me and stuff..and then she plays with my hair..and it makes it greasy when people do that and i say "Stop please it will look gross" adn she doesnt listen and sometimes she kicks me and drags me places...


But those two friends i were talkign about are awesome



Im sorry i hope everything works out
I know this wont help much because im younger then you by a little but
"Friendship is like jello...there is always room for more" XD ok so i made a little twist from the line Joey said about love.

 

[Princess Ash]

Losing friends is one of the hardest things that can happen to someone.

Stay strong.

I'm sorry for you.

 

[PurpleParrot :)]

Aww. I'm sorry

I had a penpal from England.
She moved here for 2 years and moved back, we were really close as well.
We got into those childish fights.
One time she told me that she didn't want to act so chilidish.
So she told me we could never be friends because I start all the fights.
It's not true, her family has problems. I really hate fights.
But...
The funny thing is, we never got into fights persontoperson.
It was always online, on msn or something.

This one time, she came over to my house and started a fire, then she gave my mom a look that made my mom want to cry.
She was faking so my mom wouldn't call her mom.
She got out of it!
I got into trouble.

We have been enemies ever since.
Honestly I have apologized over and over and nothing.
I know her email, but every time she cusses me out and calls me names.
I hate that

Keypooh90 I'm sorry about your friend.

 

[pigletgirl]

I'm so sorry. Thats awful.

 

[keypooh90]

I'm so sorry, purpleparrot. *hugs*

 

[3mtn-kate]

I'm sorry
I had a friend in sixth grade we were wicked close then in seventh and eighth grade we just kind of started to fall apart and now we don't even talk

PM me anytime to talk for advice or just to vent
I'll listen I promise!