1GoldenSun
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- Jun 17, 2017
As a sister thread to "When did you leave the nest," when do you anticipate/hope that your children will be leaving your home?
I'm kind of torn. I do think it can make good sense to live at home if you are saving money to purchase a home or maybe paying off college loans, or possibly caring for a parent who needs some kind of assistance.
Personally, I hope my kids come back a little during the first couple years of college-- for holidays, and maybe the first summer. After that I expect there will be internships, summer classes, or maybe travel. Preferably, after college they find some other living arrangement, even if it's slightly substandard housing with lots of roommates to keep costs down. I think they and my husband and I would all prefer them to be living on their own while they save for a home. It's my hope that we can manage for my kids not to need any student loans.
I hope to see my kids regularly after they go off to college, but I think our personal "style" would be to not actually share the same household after that except for breaks. I think I'd probably keep their rooms intact until they graduated college.
But who knows what will actually happen?!
I'm kind of torn. I do think it can make good sense to live at home if you are saving money to purchase a home or maybe paying off college loans, or possibly caring for a parent who needs some kind of assistance.
Personally, I hope my kids come back a little during the first couple years of college-- for holidays, and maybe the first summer. After that I expect there will be internships, summer classes, or maybe travel. Preferably, after college they find some other living arrangement, even if it's slightly substandard housing with lots of roommates to keep costs down. I think they and my husband and I would all prefer them to be living on their own while they save for a home. It's my hope that we can manage for my kids not to need any student loans.
I hope to see my kids regularly after they go off to college, but I think our personal "style" would be to not actually share the same household after that except for breaks. I think I'd probably keep their rooms intact until they graduated college.
But who knows what will actually happen?!
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