Dont you just wish you could put that eating/exercise confidence in a bottle and use it for a weak moment? or sell it???
I'm currently 2 1/2 weeks in to an 8 week contest with 19 other people and thats what lit the internal fire in me. That and the fact that I have a trip to WDW in early June, which means we'll be hanging around BB and TL so I need to be swimsuit ready!
I actually don't really know how to give somebody else the motivation to stick with an exercise/eating program that will last for a lifetime. I am a family physician (as well as a person who has just lost over 70lb over the past year or so). I see patients every day that I am trying to help with that issue. I know from my experience that I can't quit what I am doing and expect that I will stay fit and healthy and the same size I am now. Unlike other people I have read about here, I haven't had a weight problem all of my life. I had relatively short high stress intervals in my life, when I let down my guard, and didn't exercise as much or ate too much. And I gained weight. I recognize now that by doing those things, I was not setting a good example for my patients, and setting a good example is a motivation for me. I didn't have any big events in my life that acted as motivation for me, though, so, I don't have any end in sight to my plan.
It seems to help my patients to see what I have done, and I share with them how I did it. I have some who do very well, and some who don't do as well. But, I try to support and encourage them all.
It is interesting, and also very flattering to me to have people who are not my patients, but are other parents at my son's school and fellow parishioners who comment on my appearance and weight loss, and want to know how I did it. I also observe other people who have lost weight at the same time I did (who are in my same circle of acquaintances), and flatter myself that we may have had a positive influence on each other.
My pastor, in particular, tickles me. He was out of town most of the month of June last year. I am a Eucharistic minister a particular Sunday of the month, and during May and June last year, I lost about 25 lbs. He apparently wasn't paying attention, until the Sunday in July when I was Eucharistic minister. After Mass, he came directly to me, and wanted to be sure that there was nothing wrong. I explained that I was fine, and I was losing weight intentionally. So, I make the observation that since that time, he himself appears to have lost at least 30lbs (or else, he has decided to wear clothing way too big for some odd reason). Maybe the time has come for me to give him some positve reinforcement in letting him know that I have noticed.