What's the matter with some kids

[Gail T AGAIN]

I have to , well I don't have to I offered to go into work to give my so worker time to get to the court house to CHIN her kid who is 16. he hits her, calls her all kinds of crass names and now starting to do this to teachers and other females both young and older. I am afraid for her, he bruises her so bad but she is afraid to do anything cause she loves him. He has problems that need to be addressed before he takes her life or someone elses. Their home life is less then a peaceful one and I do believe that is the root of the problem... the husband treats her this way also, physical abuse and verbal isn't healthy for anyone. her self esteem is down, I just hope my trying to help does not backfire in my face.

 

[Tony-NJ]

This is so sad Gail. And a tough call on your part. Perhaps your co worker may feel like you are "budding" in to her business. Especially if she feels that being abused by both DH and DS is NOT a problem. I'll keep you and your co worker in my thoughts. Keep us posted.

 

[believe]

Very sad The son is this way because he figures if his Dad treats women this way it must be right. If he is treating teachers like this this may get solved without your intervention. I will keep this situation in my prayers.

 

[SeaSpray]

Whats the matter with some kids?? It's obvious. He learned this behavior from his father AND from his mother allowing it.

What's the matter with some PARENTS?????

That entire family needs help....fast.

 

[PRINCESS VIJA]

I completely agree with how SeaSpray said it. And Believe is right, intervention WILL happen soon enough, but hopefully sooner than later, (and by that I mean before he seriously hurts someone). If he's already 16 can he be shown that it isn't right to treat people this way? I pray that he gets the help he needs, the whole family actually.

 

[Gail T AGAIN]

My friend went to the police station today cause she feared for her life. The police came and took him out, he is now in DDS custody and tomorrow her sister is going to see if he can live with her. That would be the best thing, he needs help.