Thanks everyone for the good wishes. Unfortunately, we just cancelled our trip. I think DW and I would be able to get out on time tomorrow, but the big question mark was my sister-in-law driving from Cleveland to Rochester to watch the girls while we're gone. The plan was to put the girls on the school bus, we would leave, the girls would come home to friends and wait for the "Cool Aunt" to arrive Thursday evening from Cleveland. Everything we're reading says the Cool Aunt would be driving right into the teeth of the storm. It just doesn't look safe for her to be driving, and seems like a lot to ask of her. So we did the conservative thing and called it off.
**sigh** it stinks being an adult sometimes...