I started greying early too Zurgswife. My mother has told me to just let it go, it's too much trouble --- but I'm not ready for grey hair!
Carrieberry I know exactly what you mean about pre-lightened hair fading quickly after coloring it darker. And the blonde becoming brassy with sunlight or special shampoo.
I had quite a bit of my hair cut off to a chin length bob, with a little bit of a bang. It's a nice spring cut, but mainly I did it to cut out the blonde. Went back to the salon a few weeks later and added some layers to get more cut out. It looks kinda like a dirty blonde now. It has more body too. All that processing really takes it out of your hair! Don't know what I'll do once more of the medium brown starts really showing through the roots and all. (I've tried red highlights and blonde highlights) --- For now, I'll probably stay with the lighter color highlights. It's been highlighted so heavily it's had an almost all over color effect. Luckily, it's blended to look dirty blonde. Don't know long that will last though. So I'm just planning ahead for the next step, researching the products to try at home.
DH helped out the last time I tried it at home. It was so funny. I was surprised that he just jumped right in there! No complaints! I was lucky. It's no fun doing it by yourself. I have a hard time seeing the color changing.
Anyways, I'm averaging about $100 a month on highlighting (That's without a haircut!). $1200 a year --- Now that would be a good chunk of change for a Disney vacation!
Well, thanks again for all of your responses. It will help me to make a more informed decision.
Annemarie
