So I just spent the weekend at
Disneyland, and on Saturday at California Adventure I saw something I was not expecting. It was quite busy at that time and there was a line up in the washroom. A few people in front of me was a man. Yes, he was definitely a man, he had a full beard, men's clothing, was very tall, etc. He was pushing a wheelchair of a girl who was maybe late teens and quite disabled. I guess he felt uncomfortable taking her in the men's washroom, so I guess he brought her in the women's.
I was not bothered at all, and I was shocked (pleasantly) to see no other women confront him. And instead, when he went to take the girl to the washroom, many women were actually helping him (holding the stall open so he could help his daughter get up, asking if he needed help lifting her etc.). Another woman walked by and said "What can I do to help, a little kindness goes a long way".
I don't think I'd ever seen this before, and like I said, I wasn't bothered at all. I had my 11 year old daughter with me and she asked why the man was there, I said to help that girl (I assume his daughter), and she wasn't bothered either.
With all these washroom debates, I was so glad to see there were no issues here. As it very easily could have gone another way. And this poor girl really needed to use the washroom and the man (I assume dad) was just trying to help.