What would you do

[DLPdaft]

I haven't read any other replies yet Jackie, just your original post.

In your friends shoes, would you want to know? Would you want a good friend to be the one to tell you? If the answer to both those questions is Yes, then you need to tell your friend.

Yes, it may be an awful thing to have to tell her, and it may affect your friendship for a while. But if she's a good friend to you, and you to her, she wouldn't let it spoil things between you forever.

How will she feel if she finds out from someone else about her husbands affair, and also that you knew about it long before she did?

Hugs to you , you'll need it whatever you decide to do with the information you have.

 

[DLPdaft]

And now having read all the replies you've had so far - I would like to add that I wouldn't say anything to either of them unless I knew for sure that her husband was playing away.