Meriweather
Being a Nana is my superpower
- Joined
- Mar 31, 2002
Pretty much the same as now.....same house, retired (me anyway).
Addition of 2 grandkids
Addition of 2 grandkids
So sorry for your loss.Well, I was youngerand hadn't yet been faced with being told I have breast cancer.
More importantly though, my Mom was still here with me, she just passed away 3 months ago.
So sorry for your loss. Know you are in my thoughts.I was having major issues with my mental health. Our son was in a car accident in August of 2011 and he did not survive. I have no idea how the remainder of that year went. I look back now at that time and I have few memories. Almost nothing. I can't remember the friends and people that came to our home. My sister tells me there were so many people! I vaguely remember sitting at the funeral home. My mom and husband handled most of the plans. I do remember on the day of the funeral, I looked up and saw the line of people in the visiting room, going down the hallway (my mom said the line went out the front doors) and I was just tired - so, so tired. I remember a friend coming to visit in December and we didn't have a tree up. She and her husband came over with a decorated tree for our house. Our daughter (she was 5 at the time) absolutely loved it.
Months of therapy, a great group of friends, and a supportive family got me through. Grief is weird. It's always present. Some days it hits so strong it's like it just happened. Other days it's just a passing thought in the back of my mind. I can think about Nick and smile now. It's the thoughts of what he would be like today, family gatherings without him, the future we've lost, that make me sad.
I was having major issues with my mental health. Our son was in a car accident in August of 2011 and he did not survive. I have no idea how the remainder of that year went. I look back now at that time and I have few memories. Almost nothing. I can't remember the friends and people that came to our home. My sister tells me there were so many people! I vaguely remember sitting at the funeral home. My mom and husband handled most of the plans. I do remember on the day of the funeral, I looked up and saw the line of people in the visiting room, going down the hallway (my mom said the line went out the front doors) and I was just tired - so, so tired. I remember a friend coming to visit in December and we didn't have a tree up. She and her husband came over with a decorated tree for our house. Our daughter (she was 5 at the time) absolutely loved it.
Months of therapy, a great group of friends, and a supportive family got me through. Grief is weird. It's always present. Some days it hits so strong it's like it just happened. Other days it's just a passing thought in the back of my mind. I can think about Nick and smile now. It's the thoughts of what he would be like today, family gatherings without him, the future we've lost, that make me sad.
Well, I was youngerand hadn't yet been faced with being told I have breast cancer.
More importantly though, my Mom was still here with me, she just passed away 3 months ago.
Hope everything has been okay for you.![]()