My wedding was full blown, grand scale -- like a lot of weddings of 22 year old women who let their mother plan the whole thing.
Would I do it over again if I were to remarry? No way. It was nice at the time though.
We had 250 guests, a night time wedding, high mass in Catholic church, sit down dinner, open bar, lots of dancing. Most of it was a blur to me 1 hour after it was over, and its definately a blur to me 17 years later.
It was lovely, though, and I am so thankful my parents were alive and well then, they both died not long afterwards.
I'm glad they realized their dream in seeing me (and several of their 9 children) married. 
Would I do it over again if I were to remarry? No way. It was nice at the time though.
We had 250 guests, a night time wedding, high mass in Catholic church, sit down dinner, open bar, lots of dancing. Most of it was a blur to me 1 hour after it was over, and its definately a blur to me 17 years later.
It was lovely, though, and I am so thankful my parents were alive and well then, they both died not long afterwards.
I'm glad they realized their dream in seeing me (and several of their 9 children) married. 