We are Signature+ AP's who visit the parks 30+ times per year. We went to DL on NYE last year with another family of 4, and we all said, "Never Again!" It was a "10" day, with a closure mid-afternoon, and it was just EXHAUSTING. The place was wall-to-wall people (you could barely see the sidewalks!), wait times were very long (45-120 min), FP's for E-tickets like Indy, Space Mtn, Star Tours were gone by 11 am for the whole day, bathroom lines were 15-20 min (men's and women's, so sending DD's with dad didn't help), and we had a rushed lunch with unusually poor service at BB because they were so busy. We posted up the guys on the parade route for PTN (no blankets, just 2 dads and strollers with sleeping toddlers) while we waited for Small World x 45 min. As parade time neared, people started trying to elbow our husbands out of the way for space, and during the parade, I had to berate adults who came and stood directly in front of our young kids. We were fed up by that point and left by 7 pm. On the way out, some rowdy kids repeatedly knocked into my 3 year old while she was trying to see the windows on Main Street, and there were no parents in sight. Our problem was not just the crowds, but how rude people were being, because they were obviously stressed and worn out.
My suggestions:
- make a dining reservation now for at least one sit-down meal per day to get you out of the madness (don't plan on leaving the park, as you may not be able to re-enter.)
- consider dining packages with reserved seating to save yourself time for parades/shows
- get there EARLY
- prioritize 3-5 rides/shows you must do, and get FP early if applicable
- use runners for FP
- if possible, use people who can hold spots for parades/shows while others do bathroom or snack runs
- don't wait until the last minute to go to the bathroom (a 15 min wait can lead to accidents for toddlers and missed show times for you!)
- remember that you are on vacation. If you aren't having a good time, do something different - see a show, watch Steamboat Willie, ride some kiddie ride you never thought you'd go on, go to DCA, etc...
Enjoy!