Wow!!! Thank you all for your replies. We're not flying so I won't have any problems bringing anything. Driving down from Maryland in our big Ford Excursion, plenty of room.
I've been grabbing salt and peppers from McD's everytime I take my DD there for lunch. I got Wisk tablets, dryers sheets packed and color magnet sheets, planning on doing alot of laundry with 5 adults and 1 kid. We are all packing light, plus clean towels everyday, they don't know how to use one more than once. Baggies of all sizes, a few trash bags, foil, plastic wrap, napkins, a can/bottle opener, air fresheners for the bathrooms. I bought the cheap wine with the twist off caps, I used 20 oz water bottle for my hard stuff. Ha! Ha!
Do I need to pack a sharp knife and paper towels? Do they still have dishes and silverware in the 2 bedrooms at OKW. should I pack paper plates? We are only planning on having breakfasts and 1 birthday dinner there.