Jimmy Nuetron (for the non-motion seats)
Shrek (if it has non-motion seats)
Jaws (I think)
Terminator (loud bangs in the beginning though)
All shows (Beetlejuice, Aminal Actors,etc.)
Keep in mind even these attractions have loud noises.
Child swap will be your number one friend, and most child swap areas are plesant. Do everything you want to do and hopefully you have express passes.
I should add that my youngest was 2 years old, so I had time to study the attraction fromt that point of veiw.