In the last few years, we've spend about 10% of gross, which amount to around 16% of net (after income tax and retirement savings taken out). This pays for 2 or 3 vacations a year for 2 adults. I love to travel, see places & people, or just lay around on a beach sipping drinks, so we try to do a bit of each every year. DH, well... he loves me! So he just gets on board with my plan (as long as we ca afford the few luxuries he want).