For a guy (also pretty shy, very introverted) who has made several solo trips (sometimes I fly, sometimes I make the non-stop 16 hour drive), I know how you are feeling about it. But I found so much encouragement on these boards and also courage from within. I love Disney and despite friends and family not caring or having the time/money, I wasn't going to let that hold me back. I will admit I was kind of terrified on my first trip. Most of the 16 hours driving down there was one big panic attack; I kept telling myself to just turn around (but $3000 was motivation to push on

). However, when I got there, the fear quickly dissipated. I soon realized that while it might appear weird being a 20 something y/o male walking around on his own in the parks, I soon realized that nobody cared, heck nobody even paid any attention (in a good way, of course)! And by chance that the .1% of people who do care/judge (there is usually one or two you will run into), guess how many you will ever see again? I use to
ALWAYS have an excuse: separated from my family, friends are back at the resort, nobody wanted to ride this one, I am the only one who wanted to try this restaurant, friends left yesterday and I wanted to an extra day in the parks, etc. That works just fine too! But now I am so comfortable going solo that I will tell anyone who actually cares that I am going solo and happy to do so (people have even admitted to being jealous

). Getting over any initial fear will happen quickly if you allow it. If you are absolutely beyond terrified, a brief weekend getaway (especially during F&W where you can snack your way through hunger and get lost in the larger crowds) would be a great way to experiment. Or you can be like me and make it a 9 day extravaganza with the Deluxe Dining so that you get a great feel for everything. Either way, I am sure you will have a great time
Going solo has plenty of great benefits, like...
doing anything you want when you want to do them! Where you stay, how long, where/what you eat, what you ride, what you do with the day. That freedom also helps with any anxiety I had. And like
@loves to dive said, Cast Members (in general, but not always) will not only try to make you feel as comfortable as possible, some go even more out of their way to make you feel special/appreciated (can be a good thing or bad depending on how you take it, but in general I appreciate
someone paying attention to me while on vacay - I have even gotten free deserts, room upgrades, meetings with head chefs just because I was solo). Plus you have the added bonus of single rider lines, cutting in line when the ride CM is looking for a solo rider. Try not to pass up on Table Service if there is one you like, there are great chances to speak with bartenders/cooks (or not) at table service bars/counters, plus I have had some phenomenal meals (that you won't get at QS). There is so much to look forward to as a solo, I hope you get to experience it!
I have seen plenty of people ask on the boards what the best solo resort is. Quite honestly, it's the one you like the most (and can afford

). I have done Pop and the All-Stars because I value longer trips vs the amenities I wouldn't ever use. But I saved up enough to stay at POFQ (one of my favs to visit, so I am stoked to be staying there!) and plan to slow things down a bit more in Dec and enjoy the resort. In general Coronado is a great choice, 1. because it is gorgeous, but 2. there are often conventions/conferences there, so it seems to be more adult oriented. POFQ has a great, friendly New Orleans feel/look which I love. But if you are going for a weekend F&W trip, then
any hotel around Crescent Lake would be my choice for sure (not that I could afford them, but they would be my choice)! Motel vs. hotel might be an issue anywhere other than WDW (in terms of safety), but I do plenty of late night resort exploring/photography when I am there and I have never once felt unsafe. So go with what you are looking forward to the most. After all, this trip is for you!