I was expecting to come back to "if you hate your country so much, leave." That's the "ugly" I thought I'd gone to by expressing my "gah" feelings. It's gone a bit differently than what I expected!
I am asking a question. I am not "questioning". There is a difference.
I don't ever expect pixie dust here, but I generally give good responses, good reasoned responses, to people over here, and I feel like bicker just called me "literally insane", due to an assumption that I am *questioning*, rather than *asking a question*.
To have an assumption that I just don't like inconvenience (DH was at the airport THREE HOURS BEFORE HIS FLIGHT...he was prepared for inconvenience) is just rotten.
DH and I are good travelers. DH is complimented by security people at how organized he is, and how easy he makes their job with him. He has traveled all over the world (except to Europe, still hasn't been there for work or play) and knows what all sorts of security looks and feels like.
This was something he hasn't experienced before. Not even at the same airport yesterday that he went through last Fall. And the other country where this same thing happened, he had been through last year as well (though not the same airport), and they didn't do this. It's NEW.
He talked to me about it, while worrying that he was there 3 hours early, but they might cause him to miss his flight, and I decided that I would ask here. And so I asked a question.
And I gave waaaaaay more information that I expected I would, about my own background of how I know that just having one person missing might have let a horrible thing be planned without people noticing, causing a horrifying event 1.5 years later...and how that relates to not being happy when silly things are put into place. I doubt if there's another person with that same background...and I'm still not sure how it correlates 1 to 1 to this question, but it comes up in my brain and heart when I talk about security at airports; it's part of the background chatter in my own head.
If the answer is: "it's theater", say that.
If the answer is: "it's not theater but I can't tell you how it works, but it does work", say that.
If the answer is: "I don't know", say that.
"After 9/11 every one swore up and down that no security procedure was too much, that the slight delays were worth it to ensure as much as possible our safety."
I never once said or thought that. Even despite my background from my parents.
I thought..."wow, that 'human' who planned this probably didn't expect the integrity of those two buildings to fall apart like that; he's probably stinkin' shocked that that happened."
I thought..."and now America enters the rest of the world, which has been dealing with this for millenia."
I thought..."sometimes junk happens despite the best efforts."
And when I was patted down in the underwire area, and my shoes were checked because I had steel toes (adorable shoes, no idea why they had those toes), but then the TEN hairpins I had to hold up my hairbun were OK...despite the pins being probably 2 inches long, double-ended, and most were missing their rubber tips, meaning I was walking on board with 20 2 inch metal weapons in my hair...onto a plane going to DC on September 18, 2001...I was fairly sure that America probably shouldn't be in charge of any airport security.
And when we got home, and I realized that part of my keychain had gotten unscrewed from itself, and therefore I had a bit of metal that looked like a bullet roaming in my carryon, and no one had noticed...that feeling was just solidified.
But I personally have never said that no security measure was too much.
And all I wanted to know was...what purpose does this new procedure serve?