We've travelled pretty extensively overseas as a family, and we usually travel independently. After our first
ABD, I decided that we would only use ABD if:
1. The itinerary matches what we are interested in seeing in a destination. (As an example, I am planning a trip to Australia next year. Our primary interest is wildlife and the outdoors; the ABD Australia itinerary is not a good fit for us).
2. There is some reason why I don't feel like planning the trip and handling logistics myself. As a result, I am willing to give up the flexibility of independent travel.
If those criteria are met, then the value for me is:
1. The guides are great. When we use non-ABD tour guides on trips I plan, I sometimes have to remind myself not to judge them by ABD standards.
2. The itineraries are well thought out. There's a good mix of sightseeing and hands on activities and ABD finds some real gems that I would not find on my own. Or they are able to get some type of priority access to an attraction that I would have a hard time getting on my own.
3. Someone else does all the unpleasant mom stuff for me. If something goes wrong, I don't need to fix it. If someone is not feeling well, one of the guides will notice and provide help. If someone is hangry, snacks are on offer.