I don't usually stress about thread titles.  I understand the OP is trying to get the attention of a particular audience.  That said, I do cringe a little at "dinning" and O'hanas.  But really, people are looking for advice not grammar and spelling lessons so I let it go.  As for really "blanket" requests for advice, I just don't respond to them.  As a PP mentioned, how am I supposed to "convince you", make a determination whether or not a venue is "worth it" or what you will like?  I'm not you.  I will be happy to share my own opinion.  That's kind of what they are asking in the long run.  But sometimes, the way a title is phrased, makes me unsure whether I should answer so I don't.