1. Do you want/need Daily maid service? (rental homes and Timeshares often don't offer daily maid services.
Maid service is certainly not a necessity. We tend to keep a pretty tidy place, whether at home or in a hotel. Although, I do like having clean towels and washcloths brought to me. I do enough laundry at home!
2. Do your kids enjoy visiting the pool? Do they want slides? lazy rivers? etc.
The pool is definitely going to be important on this trip. Our almost 2-year-old LOVES the water. Something themed would be great for us. Also, I dislike an overcrowded pool area. One thing that I really like about some of the DIS resorts, like POR, is the quiet pools clustered around.
3. Do you enjoy having a resort feel, or would you prefer being someplace that could be a bit more isolated and/or private?
Hmm...not sure about this. I think on vacation we would prefer the resort feel.
4. Do you need/want a kitchen and/or Fridge? (Meals at your room? breakfast or snack before the parks? a place to keep leftovers from eating out?)
A Fridge is a MUST have. A kitchen would be a desire but not a necessity.
5. How comfortable are you with driving in the area? (ok short distances? prefer to rely on the hotel/resort shuttle to the parks? Don't have a problem driving a bit or dealing with traffic)
My husband does the bulk of the driving in our family. He definitely would prefer NOT having to drive. That said, with 3 kids now, I really feel it would be easier to have our own vehicle. Definitely the closer to the parks, and an option of shuttle would be great. (I can see us dividing up and maybe one of us returning to a park with our 5 year old daughter, for example)
6. Do you want to be close enough to allow an easy/quick mid-day break back from the parks?
YES!
7. Do you want theming and/or entertainment available at the resort for the kids?
Not necessary, but would be great.
8. Do you like the idea on onsite restaurants at the hotel/resort?
YES
9. Do you want/need a bar for your tasty adult beverages?
Not necessary-my husband may disagree with this answer!
The answers to these questions could help steer our suggestions in a direction that suits your needs/desires.