How do you know for sure you are "fat" versus "soft"?
At what point do you cross the threshold of having a bit to spare to being viewed in the world as just plain fat?
Is it defined by a weight? By a size? By an appearance?
And, does it really matter?
At what point do you cross the threshold of having a bit to spare to being viewed in the world as just plain fat?
Is it defined by a weight? By a size? By an appearance?
And, does it really matter?


Anyone who weighs X number of pounds more than I do is "fat."