everyone's entitled to their own opinions & views...
first off, i too was a first time cruiseer, just last year, and had lots questions, big & small! (and believe me, when i said lots of, i mean LOTS of!!!!) and now, i have just one cruise under my belt, but am still no expert...
but here's what i did regarding the drill. traveled with 2 DSs (2 & 4 at the time). they napped around 3 ish...for an hour or so, so naturally, we were concerned about the drill. luckily we got in early, did the eating, exploring, ressie rush, etc. got back to our stateroom. and put our DSs down for their nap early. our older DS woke up before the drill. and when the drill siren sounded, our younger son woke up. it was about time for him to get up anyways, so i guess we lucked out!? our DS2 was very uncomfortable in his life jacket thing. poor thing, it just didn't fit him at all! too big & bulky for him, and he was too big for the little baby one they had.
anyways, when we got to our station, the cm saw how uncomfortable our DS2 looked, he told us we can take it off of him, so we did.
the one thing we did do with our DSs was that we talked to them about the drill before hand, how it's really important, we need to wear this life jacket thing, for safety, etc. and i think that helped our boys go through it a bit easier. (a tip i got from this board!!). oh, and my DH promised them ice cream afterwards! so that also helped!!
