What happened to your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend??

[Kitty 34]

My very first X-boyfriend lives in Arizona and has most of his adult life. He has a wife, two sons and a couple of grandkids now. His parents still live in my town. We dated in high school. I haven't seen him in years and years!

 

[Mermaid02]

Well I saw his wife (whom I get along very well with) at work the other day and she said, "Guess what! We live right down the street from you now!" Sure enough, they live EXTREMELY close to us. Our children will now go to the same school- I feel like two universes are colliding! My dh says we will NOT be having BBQ's with them.

 

[Cindy B]

Pembo, how you could get all that inofrmation is beyone me!

I ran into an ex, when I was buyng school supplies with my kids. He was working at Staples or Office Max (one of those places), and there he was. He saw me with my son, and then my hubby came behind him. I quickly paid and told him later who that guy was.

I know my first ever boyfriend, last I heard, lives about 20 or so minutes from me. We talked about 6-7 years ago, when I first moved back. I moved to Ohio so quickly, never really said goodbye to people... he was one of them. He's married with kids.

Last I hear a college ex lives in Delaware with a wife and kids

I'd be dying to figure out what happened to DH's old girlfriend. I dont have much to go on, only her maiden name and the town she may live in.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

My ex of 3 years who I broke up with in July is still living on the Cape as a firefighter/EMT. He is attending the local community college for a degree in fire science and he and I still talk.

 

[snoopy]

I only have one ex, and I see him from time to time. We were in the same circle in college, so anytime anything happens with someone in the circle (wedding, birth of baby, etc.) I see him. He is still as arrogant as he was then, just an adult version of that arrogance. He's very successful, as I knew he would be - ruthless people usually are. I have no regrets about my decision to break up with him, I never thought he would be a good family man, and apparently I was right since his 2 marriages ended in divorce with no children. He has a beautiful home not far from where we live, a 6 figure salary, but really nothing much beyond that. Kind of sad, really.

I wish him well though, but he's not someone I ever really give much thought to.

 

[jwsqrdplus2]

I ran into an ex about 1 1/2 years after I married DH (DH was the first/only guy I dated after that breakup). All three of us ended up in a class together. As I was looking at my ex (very good looking), I was trying to remember why I had broken up with him. Then I got a chance to talk to him for a bit and I remembered!! He was (and still was then too) a VERY negative person. Everything was always bad, and nothing was ever his fault. No regrets there!

 

[Pembo]

CBR, pooh, and Cindy -- All the information I got was right off my google search engine for public records. A little stalker-like, however, he was a PI ~ I learned it from him. LOL!!!

As for asking if it would last, I admit it was a bit rude but you have to know the guy and his brother to understand! That is a question, they would have asked without blinking.

I still can't believe it. Now I'm thinking that maybe the guy I thought he would be isn't who he is now. That's a little depressing. He was so filled with potential.......

 

[tkd lisa]

My first serious boyfriend was my mom's best friend's nephew (a little convoluted, but anyway). We went to the same college, etc. My mom is a pretty extreme man-hater (divorced when I was 7, and has been on 1 date in the over 30 years since!!!). Anyway, about 7 years ago she called and said "I don't know how to tell you this, but Scott got divorced." At the time, I was married with two kids, but she honestly thought that I'd be upset by this! I just said I was sad for him.

Other than that guy, I probably only had one other serious BF besides DH, and I have no clue what happened to him!

 

[Mishetta]

The first time I ran into my ex-fiance was at a family funeral. My DH & I had just moved back from California & I hadn't even thought of "ex" in years. We walked into the funeral parlor & I see this guy pointing at me. I thought he looked familiar & then I realized it was "ex!" (I found out later he was pointing me out to his wife!) As shocked as I was, I had to have the upper hand....so my DH & I walked over to him & I planted a kiss on his cheek & said "oh John Doe so nice to see you again. I'd like to introduce you to my husband....." Then he was the shocked one!! He then proceeded to introduce me to his wife (who looks a lot like me ~ only bigger!)

He & his wife are very nice people. We have seen them every now & again over the years at big family functions (he was my cousin's best friend ~ that's how we met in the first place.) I was so touched when he (& his wife) came to my Mom's funeral. We also now exchange Christmas cards & photo's of our children.

No regrets since I married another wonderful man but if I had married him, I believe I still would have had a happy marriage.

 

[C.Ann]

A fella I was once engaged to married a lovely woman.. They had 3 children who were all born deaf.. When he wife was in her late 20's, she was stricken with cancer.. She recovered the first time, but had a relapse and died in her early 30's..

I've always felt bad that he lost his wife like that.. He was a really great guy - we were just too young to try to get married and make a go of it..

 

[barbeml]

One of my ex-boyfriends is in his second year of a 12-year prison sentence for attempting to kill his wife and assaulting several others. It was quite the front-page story around here for a couple of years, as he had a prominent career and the first trial resulted in a hung jury.

Apparently, he disguised himself and staged a robbery to cover up the fact that he was trying to murder his wife. She did not die, but he did manage to stab her three times before the store owner chased him out. He took off his mask and dropped his keys so the cops got him right away.

He was always nice to me, but I'm sure glad I didn't marry him.

 

[catsrule]

Have no idea, and don't really care.