I am a combination of Rapunzel from Tangled - my DH will tell you the frying pan has always been my weapon of choice; Brenda Lee Johnson from The Closer - I'm in charge at work, but need to learn to turn it off at home; I often feel like Debra from Everybody Loves Raymond...with my husband being Raymond, of course. Although his parents live a 1/4 mile up the road, not right next door.