sdoll said:
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If you read my post I wrote that I peel my apples and cut them up for my son. I would not dream of giving him apples with the peel still on or an apple not cut up. I am well aware of the foods he should not eat. When we started him on solids we were on vacation with my sister and her husband who happens to be an ER doctor. Not only do I read the books and ask my ped. I trust my BIL he was there and offered his advise on what we could and could not give our son.
I am sorry to have offended you. I
DID read that you peel & chop your apples. All I said was
my peditold me that apples are not good and they are on the AAP list of foods not to give your children until older. But, hey, in the UK they're recommended.

Go figure. Of course, I don't know if they're recommended raw, but from the sounds of it they are.
My pedi has had a few kids in their (very large) practice that have gone in to the ER choking on apples. Apples are a food where the actual apple must be chewed, not just the skin. While most kids will have teeth at this age, not all do, AND most will not have in their molars--which is what people actually use to chew. The front teeth are more for looks & a tool (biting). Think about it, do you chew in the front of your mouth or the back of your mouth?
I'm not saying you are an uncaring parent. Or an uneducated parent. Or any type of awful parent at all. All I said was what my pedi told me. He specifically pointed it out because these kids were rushed to the ER, many having to under go surgery. The parents were there when it happened, which is why all but one lived. It was still a traumatic experience.
We feed our 1 yo apples. Just the softened ones in Gerber graduate jars. Or cooked apples. As per my Pedi's advice. We also only feed him meats if they're ground and only chicken if it is soft enough to fall off the bone. As per my pedi's advice. I also stay away from french fries, hotdogs, popcorn, hard candy, gum, raw carrots, etc all per the recommended AAP list. But, hey, I won't even dream of giving my kids something like chicken nuggets until they are at least 2--my oldest didn't get it for the first time until 3. But that's me.
Our 2nd DS has health issues. And we've almost lost him more than once. We've been to hell and back with his health and I take a lot of stock in our pedi from it. He HAD to find the best general pedi because of it, per our pedi specialists.
My pedi stays pretty up to date attending conferences and reading journals (not all Drs do, and I'm not saying yours doesn't...) and he is very highly regarded in the medical community (as why we chose him from what was mentioned in the above paragraph), including the #3 ranked children's hospital
in the country. And don't forget there is a reason why Dr specialities vary, it is impossible to learn and be the best in everything--especially with children where there bodies work differently & parts aren't even located in the same places. Children's bodies just aren't mini adult bodies. We've learned that the hard way.
Hey, if you feel comfortable with your choices, why do you even care what I think or say? I certainly would never walk up to you and say "Don't do that". Heck, I see people giving there toddlers and infants things that make my stomach turn (hard candy or gum) and I just keep it to myself. It's none of my business. But someone asked everyone for advice, and I gave her mine. Or rather my pedi's. Again, I'm sorry you took offense at something that was not meant to demean you.