Well, I agree with your daughter, too.
Are you thinking of that gift because it is something they need, or is it because you have that stuff already (like from CVSing)? I am just trying to figure out if it is because of financial reasons on your end.
If it is, I would gravitate towards homemade goodies. I love the jam idea.
If it isn't I like the Netflix suggestion. I also like to send consumables to people who have everything. I have done edible arrangements, balsam pieces from LL Bean, amaryllis or paperwhite flowers and cheesecakes.
Good luck! Gift-giving isn't easy!
Denae