We're just trying to help you get the most out of this first family vacation. We're trying to help you save some time, $, avoiding cranky kids, from missing out on the parks, avoiding an inflexible schedule, and from regret. You can time your trip down the minute, but until you experience the hustle and bustle of WDW, you won't know unless someone - us - tells you!
You might be able to cancel an ADR if need be, but then you've technically already lost $ on the deal, because Lord knows, you will not be able to fit in another meal with your schedule.
I'm sure the memories of CS are still in your mind from being a child, but I can assure you, there is no counter service that is so miserable in WDW that should deter you. By miserable I mean, abounding with lines of people, absolutely nowhere to sit, ect. Most lines will be 5-10 people deep waiting to order. Now there might be 3-4 sets of those lines, but each line has a register. In fact there are some tasty CS's available, like Flame Tree BBQ at Animal Kingdom. The seating is outside, you can walk down the sidewalk, to shaded tables next to the lake, and our kiddos get a kick out of the ducks. My point is, there are just as relaxing and fulfilling places CS has to offer, all on the
DDP.
In 4 years, we've been 6 times (long story why we went 3 times in 1 year!). We live in VA. Our kids are 8 and 6, and we started when they were 4 and 2. We've got visiting WDW down pat, nobody starves, we get to see EVERYTHING, and can rest when we need to.
You may want to ask everyone that is going what they would absolutely be crushed about not doing or seeing, that way if your schedule does end up being tight, you know where or what you still need to do before your done with that park.
We're going this year, during Jersey week - without kids. Our first without kids WDW trip. : )