What Do You Regret Most About Your Vacation?

I regret trying to do too much sometimes. We are getting better at slowing down, having more resort time and enjoying the vacation, but sometimes I still get caught up in the 'go go go' of it all. I think I may drive my family nuts sometimes!
Also, I regret not squishing more treats in my suitcase. :rotfl: I love the mickey rice krispies and bags of Disney treats when we're at home to remind me of Disney ... but we're all out now:sad:
 
Hmm....my regret seems to be the opposite of most everyone's:rolleyes1 Our last trip was the first time I really had regrets. It was our first summer trip and I totally regretted planning downtime in the middle of the day, during the hottest point, and a # of resort ADR's. I just felt like we lost so much park time! I booked some lunch ADR's at resorts, and while they were places I'd always wanted to try, between the travel time and just being out of the parks I felt like we were wasting time. And on the days I had us going back to the resort to swim - nobody wanted to swim:confused3 But once back there my DS's wanted to chill in the room on their phones and all I could think was, WE COULD BE IN A PARK lol!!! Finally the last couple days we had lunch ADR's in parks and stuck it out during the hot hours and I realized we could have managed doing that every day. Lesson learned for our next summer trip!:thumbsup2
 
I regret not staying longer the year I went in early December, it prevented me from getting to WL to see its tree. I felt like I was rushing around trying to see everything. It was the perfect time to do more at AK because the weather was perfect, warm and not humid, and crowds were low, but I hurried out after my fave rides to go elsewhere. I also regretted not staying at a monorail hotel that trip. I love YC, but a monorail resort would have allowed me to ping around easier.

Oh, and if I go way back to my first trip when I was five and can't really be held accountable, I regret not getting a pic of the animatronic orange bird that was at Sunshine Terrace in the 80s that few remember and no one has a pic of. I loved him and cried I couldn't take him home. Crushed he was gone when I went back as an adult. The stationary one is a good second, but I want "my" bird back.
 
I am the opposite on the picture taking theme. I regret taking so many pictures and videos because I was so busy doing that, I didn't get to soak it all in for myself. I missed out on the magic because I was too busy getting photos. I realize I can look at the videos and pictures later but its not the same as being there in the moment when it happens. I hope that makes sense.

Always trying to balance that out.
 

MNSSHP (DUCKS in shame),wasnt worth us (adults) dressing up, got there too late, left a fun day at AK to rest before MNNSHP-- but in my defense, we went after 4 1/2 busy park days, with a friend whose DD got really tired. My kids did too but could have gone on a bit more had we gone right to rides.

We went to POtC and Splash area for trick for treat line (long) then did 2 rides and parade and left.
 
I am the opposite on the picture taking theme. I regret taking so many pictures and videos because I was so busy doing that, I didn't get to soak it all in for myself. I missed out on the magic because I was too busy getting photos. I realize I can look at the videos and pictures later but its not the same as being there in the moment when it happens. I hope that makes sense.

It makes sense to me! I've been trying really hard lately to not miss out on experiences by taking too many pictures.

My son and I were reading "From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler" by E.L. Konigsburg a few months ago and this paragraph stood out so much that I actually stopped and read it twice with him. I've never done that before.

"The adventure is over. Everything gets over, and nothing is ever enough. Except the part you carry with you. It's the same as going on a vacation. Some people spend all their time on a vacation taking pictures so that when they get home they can show their friends evidence that they had a good time. They don't pause to let the vacation enter inside of them and take that home."

And that was written 47 years ago! Times don't change I guess. Though in today's world I suppose "pictures" could be replaced with "cell phones"!
 
It makes sense to me! I've been trying really hard lately to not miss out on experiences by taking too many pictures. My son and I were reading From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler a few months ago and this paragraph stood out so much that I actually stopped and read it twice with him. I've never done that before. "The adventure is over. Everything gets over, and nothing is ever enough. Except the part you carry with you. It's the same as going on a vacation. Some people spend all their time on a vacation taking pictures so that when they get home they can show their friends evidence that they had a good time. They don't pause to let the vacation enter inside of them and take that home." And that was written 47 years ago! Times don't change I guess. Though in today's world I suppose "pictures" could be replaced with "cell phones"!

This is my first post on the boards but I just felt that quote so much I had to respond. We take our 3-year-old twins for their first trip in a few weeks and I'm trying to prepare myself for the overwhelming urge to give them the "perfect" trip by just remembering that it's all about being present. I couldn't care less if I ride a single ride - I just want to see the looks on their faces as they soak up Disney. I have all of the ADRs and FPs we wanted (miracle!) but it all boils down to pausing to "let the vacation enter inside" because THAT will be what my kids will remember. It's not about the coveted ADRs and hitting up every single ride - it's all about the FEELINGS that those activities evoke. Thank you for posting that quote. I will carry that one with me.
 
I always regret not taking a resort/rest day.

I always plan for one and then I just can't do it once I am there.

I'm really trying to keep this in mind this time. It is just DH and I but when we went last time we did rope drop and close every day for 5 days after a long travel day and by our second last day we were exhausted. We ended up skipping out on a bunch that day and went to bed early. This time we are going for 9 nights and travelling overnight to give us more time. We have a day in the middle where the only thing we have planned is dinner at Epcot. Our nights also aren't as late every night this time. Hopefully this works for us!
 
"The adventure is over. Everything gets over, and nothing is ever enough. Except the part you carry with you. It's the same as going on a vacation. Some people spend all their time on a vacation taking pictures so that when they get home they can show their friends evidence that they had a good time. They don't pause to let the vacation enter inside of them and take that home."

Best. Quote. Ever.
 
This is my first post on the boards but I just felt that quote so much I had to respond. We take our 3-year-old twins for their first trip in a few weeks and I'm trying to prepare myself for the overwhelming urge to give them the "perfect" trip by just remembering that it's all about being present. I couldn't care less if I ride a single ride - I just want to see the looks on their faces as they soak up Disney. I have all of the ADRs and FPs we wanted (miracle!) but it all boils down to pausing to "let the vacation enter inside" because THAT will be what my kids will remember. It's not about the coveted ADRs and hitting up every single ride - it's all about the FEELINGS that those activities evoke. Thank you for posting that quote. I will carry that one with me.

Yeah but I guarantee you once see them soaking in WDW for the first time you're gonna want catch that "on film" because many years from now when you see that again it's going to melt your heart. I agree you have to find some balance between living in the moment and capturing it but those pictures can be priceless.
 
This is my first post on the boards but I just felt that quote so much I had to respond. We take our 3-year-old twins for their first trip in a few weeks and I'm trying to prepare myself for the overwhelming urge to give them the "perfect" trip by just remembering that it's all about being present. I couldn't care less if I ride a single ride - I just want to see the looks on their faces as they soak up Disney. I have all of the ADRs and FPs we wanted (miracle!) but it all boils down to pausing to "let the vacation enter inside" because THAT will be what my kids will remember. It's not about the coveted ADRs and hitting up every single ride - it's all about the FEELINGS that those activities evoke. Thank you for posting that quote. I will carry that one with me.

You're welcome! I'm sure you'll find a wonderful balance between pausing and "doing", if that makes sense. Have a magical time with your twins and welcome to the board!
 
I regret not taking enough photos of food and scenery and such, too. I also regret not taking advantage of certain character experiences- i.e. never met Tiana, never met Mike and Sully, etc.
 
I regret thinking it was a good idea to still go on our August trip, despite being 19 weeks pregnant at the time. :faint:

I am so looking forward to not being pregnant for our upcoming April trip and experiencing our baby boy's 1st trip to Disney!! :woohoo:
 
About all those pictures - don't ever regret taking them! I've begun to experience memory problems, probably both hereditary and also related to my medical conditions. Kind of a double whammy, and starting early (I'm only 56). There are many things now that I only remember if I see pictures of them. Pictures serve as my backup memory, and I'm so grateful for the ones I have. I wish I had pictures of myself as a child, or more from college days and my twenties because so much from that time is gone already.

So you guys just keep taking those pictures. You might not love them now, but the day may come that they'll be the most precious thing on earth to you. :goodvibes
 
About all those pictures - don't ever regret taking them! I've begun to experience memory problems, probably both hereditary and also related to my medical conditions. Kind of a double whammy, and starting early (I'm only 56). There are many things now that I only remember if I see pictures of them. Pictures serve as my backup memory, and I'm so grateful for the ones I have. I wish I had pictures of myself as a child, or more from college days and my twenties because so much from that time is gone already.

So you guys just keep taking those pictures. You might not love them now, but the day may come that they'll be the most precious thing on earth to you. :goodvibes

Great point! I think the key is finding balance between enjoying the time with family and bringing those memories home and taking pictures of some special moments for those treasures as well.
 
This is my first post on the boards but I just felt that quote so much I had to respond. We take our 3-year-old twins for their first trip in a few weeks and I'm trying to prepare myself for the overwhelming urge to give them the "perfect" trip by just remembering that it's all about being present. I couldn't care less if I ride a single ride - I just want to see the looks on their faces as they soak up Disney. I have all of the ADRs and FPs we wanted (miracle!) but it all boils down to pausing to "let the vacation enter inside" because THAT will be what my kids will remember. It's not about the coveted ADRs and hitting up every single ride - it's all about the FEELINGS that those activities evoke. Thank you for posting that quote. I will carry that one with me.

This was the BEST thing about our trip....seeing our children's expressions at everything (this was our first Disney trip). Enjoy every minute of it and capture those beautiful moments (even if just mentally) you'll always remember. Have a wonderful trip, and report back how it goes.

(Honestly my one regret of not taking enough scenic pictures is really minimal....everything was quite magical)
PS - We got tons of amazing pictures, but most of those are thanks to MM. I loved this and it was just a quick stop for a picture and we moved on...which I guess is why we didn't capture Disney pictures itself
 
Not doing more by myself. I always travel with my Mom, sister, BIL, and their DD9 and DD4. I find myself spending a lot of time holding parade spots or running around with the little ones. A month from today I'll be waking up at POP. While I still plan to help them out and spend time with them I've already got plans to make a few rope drops by myself and spend some late nights in the parks.
 
It makes sense to me! I've been trying really hard lately to not miss out on experiences by taking too many pictures.

My son and I were reading "From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler" by E.L. Konigsburg a few months ago and this paragraph stood out so much that I actually stopped and read it twice with him. I've never done that before.

"The adventure is over. Everything gets over, and nothing is ever enough. Except the part you carry with you. It's the same as going on a vacation. Some people spend all their time on a vacation taking pictures so that when they get home they can show their friends evidence that they had a good time. They don't pause to let the vacation enter inside of them and take that home."

And that was written 47 years ago! Times don't change I guess. Though in today's world I suppose "pictures" could be replaced with "cell phones"!

That is a really good quote. Thanks for posting. My next trip is in January and I plan on soaking it all in this time. :-)
 
Things I would do differently from my last trip (2 days) / (3 nights):
I loved this trip (October 2013). But:

(1) One thing I would do differently in the future on a mini trip is stay in a three star instead of a four star hotel. We stayed at the Renaissance by SeaWorld. It was lovely / had that wow factor / great seating areas / nice pool area with heated towels etc., and DS was really excited to stay there. As I had a very reasonable base rate with the SeaWorld package and it was such a short stay, I went for it. But truth be told, I'm a budget traveler and even though we had a great rate and I knew all these things ahead of time and even budgeted for them, the extra charges for parking, the extra charges for wifi, and the high cost of food at the hotel really annoyed me. I would do the neighboring Hilton Garden Inn or Marriott Residence Inn next time (nice but not wow, well priced food, and no annoying extra charges). These kinds of places are just more my style. I'm just not a four star person. (lol -- onsite Disney hotel and food prices annoy me too by the way, and I'm happiest offsite I find. I'm not impressed by the value for the values and moderates and the deluxe hotels and condos are too outrageously priced for my budget.)

(2) Given a choice I'd pick a timeframe in the Nov - May period instead of October. I've done two trips in October now, and it's just too hot and humid then. I mean it's not all that horrible compared to summer. But if I could I'd swing for a less humid timeframe. Trying mid December on the next trip.

Things I'd do differently on the trip before that (March of 2011) (six days / seven nights)

(1) I'd go for a shorter time and skip resort days or just do one not two. A full week was just too much. Maybe too it's that I just go with DS (DH doesn't like Orlando) and on this we met up with extended family. I like doing that, but for a few days not for a whole week I think. Also, in Orlando resort days feel like a waste to me. My parents love them and think it's a waste not to have them when you are staying at a great resort. I guess a compromise for me would be shorter park days with some resort time, but still doing some sort of activity each day. We're meeting up with them again December 2014, DS is staying the whole week, but I'm just doing five nights / four days and have one day for the Titanic and resort and parks for the other three days.

(2) On our busy Hollywood Studios day we got there right at nine not before rope drop. That was a mistake and even our first two hours were crowded. Next time like I almost always do, I would get to any park over spring break at about 45 minute to a half hour before rope drop.

(3) I would not do to Hollywood Studios again on a Fantasmic day when over spring break when they aren't doing that every night. It just makes crowds at an already crowded time that much worse. I'm actually though doing MK on a wishes night when they don't have that every night because of the Christmas party (mid December). It's a crowd level 5 day though, not a 9 day like spring break, so hopefully I won't regret that. We want to see the evening parade and fireworks.

(4) I would never do a Fantasmic dinner package at Mama Melrose again -- We had to wait to be seated taking away valuable park time (might as well have waited for Fantasmic). And I found the food very mediocre for what we paid. Yuck.

(5) I'm a little less gung ho about spring break than I used to be. It's gotten more crowded at this time. I'd still consider it and do it instead of summer because of the great weather and instead of the busiest Christmas time due to the crowds and weather is quite unpredictable at Christmas. But the idea of a spring break trip to Orlando just doesn't fire me up quite as much as it used too. (Popularity makes it less appealing for me). // Next spring break DH, DS, and I are doing Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. My parents are coming too. It's not as much of a spring break destination as Orlando. And activities (tours not park days) aren't so affected by crowds.



Soo I'll just have to see how my five night / four day Orlando December 13 - 18 trip goes. Staying at Cypress Point, an offsite condo and bunking up with extended family. I'm really excited to be going. Seems I tweak a little each time based on what I liked / didn't like on previous trips.

Truth be told -- I do love going to Orlando and I haven't really ever had a bad trip! That's why I'm back and actually have the opportunity to tweak. Most other vacation destinations that I love I only do a repeat every 10 years or so. I do by the way do at least two vacations every year, so don't get the impression that Orlando is the only place we ever go. December will be my 39th trip to Orlando since 1971 when I first started going. It's just so much fun and something pulls me back. I can't think of a more fun mini mon/son get-a-way. My son is 19 an in college by the way. Like I said though, these days I'm liking the little intensive mini trip best. // 39 times in 43 years means I'm almost averaging once a year. That could be why I like the short trips too. Maybe I've just been down so much that anything more than a few days to get a theme park fix is too much of a been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. But those mini trips now for me are more magical now than my first 35 years of trips. Love them. I'm liking going down more than ever for some reason. Maybe going with my own teenager is more fun for me than when he was little, than when he was in elementary school, than when I didn't have kids, or than when I was in elementary, middle, and high school (skipped Orlando when I was in college). To quote the carousel of progress: Now is the time, now is the best time. At least that's the way I'm feeling.
 
We don't take a lot of photos on our trips as I hate being weighed down with a camera or stopping all the time. However, I LOVE looking at the "Picture of the Day" thread on the Theme Parks Community board. And I constantly find myself thinking "Where is that?" or "I've never looked at that from that angle" or "I've never noticed how pretty that is!" ...
That lead me to a light bulb moment.. I don't think I am slowing down and just observing things as much as I should. Not just on vacation, but in life really. I think if I just clear my head and slow it down, I notice the finer details of so many things.:)
 














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