DCLbrideSept2009
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- Oct 27, 2008
I didn't grow up with money. I baby-sat every chance I could when I was old enough and used that money for going out, clothes, etc. Got my first real job when I was 16. At one point was going to night school and working 2 jobs. Now I have an almost 16-yo dd who thinks we should buy her a car when she gets her DL cuz ALL of her friends' parents bought THEM cars. I told her I don't care if I was a millionaire, I'm not buying her a car. She can work and earn it the same way I did. Now, if she's LUCKY, DH will get a "new" (used) car and she can have USE OF the 11-yo Accord he's currently driving. I bought every car I ever had. My first car I bought FROM MY PARENTS (took over the remaining payments on a 1979 Monte Carlo - this was in 1986). We're now going through the Dave Ramsey FPU and I'm hoping to get her involved in it also and teach her how to budget and save (as well as the other kids). Unfortunately, that's something I still never really learned.
It is tough sometimes when I see how spoiled most of her friends are. My dd does have 2 pairs of Ugg boots - one pair she got for Christmas last year and one pair she bought with Christmas money. The only real "splurge" we've given her is she does have an iPhone (DH works for AT&T though) and a laptop - which she just got a few months ago and all of her friends have had their own computer for at least a few years.
It is tough sometimes when I see how spoiled most of her friends are. My dd does have 2 pairs of Ugg boots - one pair she got for Christmas last year and one pair she bought with Christmas money. The only real "splurge" we've given her is she does have an iPhone (DH works for AT&T though) and a laptop - which she just got a few months ago and all of her friends have had their own computer for at least a few years.