What do I do?

[VolleyballQt07]

hey ya'll! i have a problem in a couple of weeks. ok, right now, i am playing volleyball and basketball. for the games, volleyball is usually saturday, and basketball is sunday. well, monday, i leave for flordia so i'll miss volleyball on the 16th and basketball the 17th. no biggy. but, on the 24th, i have basketball AND volleyball. within a couple mintues apart. now as for basketball, our coach only wanted 8 "good" girls.....(me being one of them! ) and for volleyball, lets just say without me, they have a slim chance of doing well. not saying i'm the best in the world but i am the ''best'' on the team and have been told by coaches and team-mates! so, as for that sunday, what do i do? i am already going to miss a game of each but do i blow/miss another team again and say screw you?, this is my sport/team and am commited to this only. or do i do both? i wanna do both but my mom doesnt like that because my volleyball team is for a school who we dont like but anyways. i AM comiited to both and i dont know what to do. my dad(v-ball assistant coach) wants me to do both. but my mom has it all planned so i miss volleyball. grrrrrr, i hate moments like this. (this is getting to long so i'll post another respond!)

 

[VolleyballQt07]

ok where was i? oh yes, my mom.........anyways, my mom HATES the school and doesnt like me playing sports for them.....political issues. but i dont wanna blow them off. and with basketball, i have played two previous leagues with them this summer. but the thing is, we only have 8 girls this time but the rest of the team can manage without me for a game. i really wanna play volleyball too but i dunno. i HATE trying to bring this up to my mom because she always says ''well, you commited to basketball first!'' but thats not the point! i commited to BOTH teams and have had issues like this in the past. and my dad being the assistant for volleyball, i think he want me to do both. but i like talking to him about sport issues because usually, we find a solution. +sighs+ i dont know what to do! please help!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

please help! i know you people are smart!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

please! i could really use your opinions!

 

[dopeygirl156]

whicg one do you like more

 

[Lil_Tink]

go to half of each game if they are at the same time. Then you can help out both of them.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

whicg one do you like more

both really. i hope something will work out! thanks you two for posting. i was about ready to ask how to close this thread but there's still hope!

 

[Babyjustrun]

i would say go to volleyball.
but this is a biased opinion.
i don't have a reason for you to go to volleyball.
it's just my preference. the sport is a lot more fun than basketball, and not quite as confusing.

 

[dopeygirl156]

both really. i hope something will work out! thanks you two for posting. i was about ready to ask how to close this thread but there's still hope!

no problem i had a situation like that once but everything will be ok.
If you have to pick one you'll eventually know which one to do.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

thanks guys! (o and babyjustrun, i cant just pick volleyball because its volleyball, i need a good explanation why and if i have one, i'll still be screwed!

 

[dopeygirl156]

thanks guys! (o and babyjustrun, i cant just pick volleyball because its volleyball, i need a good explanation why and if i have one, i'll still be screwed!

Exacally

 

[Babyjustrun]

I know.
I told you, it's a biased opinion.
I was just telling you.

 

[dopeygirl156]

Do you know what your going to do yet.

 

[barnstormercrazy22]

See im a basketball and volleyball player as well and if i had to choose i would choose by like who do we hav a better chance of winning soo if u thk u hav a better winning ur basketball game then volleyball or the other way around i hope my explantion kinda helps ur problem good luck

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Since you said that your volleyball team would probably lose if you weren't there, then do volleyball. It sounds like your basketball team doesn't deperately need you, if there are other good players the coach picked.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

YAY! i have it all figured out! basketball is at 1 & 2. volleyball is at 2 & 3. so:

the girls on my basketball team can do without me for a game so, i'll go to the 1:00 basketball game and then go to both volleyball games just being a little late to the 2:00 one. so no biggy!

 

[dopeygirl156]

Thats great you get to do both

 

[VolleyballQt07]

yeah i'm soooo happy!