You cannot miss Animagique/Cinemagique (WDS), Once Upon a Dream & Fantillusion Parades, It's a Small World, Phantom Manor, Pirates of the Caribbean, Peter Pan's Flight, Buzz Lightyear
Are you into coasters?: Space Mountain, Big Thunder Mountain, Rock n roller Coaster (WDS)
Crush n coaster (WDS) has long queues, you better avoid this one if you are going to stay only two days
Yes and no.
Yes: it's a dark ride, you'll be in pirate ships flying over the scenes
No: I think the DL/ DLP one is WAY BETTER! The scenes are different from the one at WDW.
Things not to miss, IMO: Tarzan and Lion King show, the parade, a meals at Walt's and/ or Blue Lagoon, the dragon (unique!), Phantom Manor, POTC, Thunder Mountain, SPace Mountain (try to avoid to be in the back!)
At WDS: Animagique/ Cinemagique, Crush Coaster. I don't really care about all the rest, but other people do
If it's a clear day: Panoramagique at the Village.
Will do, that's something I've done at WDW many times before! Usually I like to work up to the bigger rides but I'm also impatient so I'd rather not queue too long!