What are you buying for your parents?

My mom is 85 and putting up a tree is just too much for her, so DH and I get her a small decorated table top boxwood tree from the florist each year. We bring it over around the 15th and it lasts past New Years. She really looks forward to the different decorations each year. Runs about $75
 
I don't really talk to my Dad that much so we don't exchange. Both my DH's parents are deceased and we only exchange for the kids with my sister in law. My Mom I bought a new cordless phone. She is the type that is never really happy with what she gets so we shall see how it goes. :confused3
 
we've gotten tmy parents:
garden claw
handheld blender (a HUGE hit:confused3)
southwest gift cards
indoor herb garden (mom loves to cook)
movie passes
comfy leather recliner
dad loves the beach and long island, where we live, so anything related
blue tooth for their car

this year they're getting 7day hopper passes to wdw (chipping in with my 2 brothers)
hth
 
My parents are both 84, Dad is wheelchair bound, they live in a 500 sq ft apartment. It is tricky to get them anything! A few years ago we started replacing things for them. My siblings and I go in together to do this. We got them a new tv last year. This year its a mattress set. For Mom's birthday I replaced her George Foreman grill, the non stick stuff was almost gone! We got them a new recliner one year.

Another thing I've done is "Fruit of the Month" club, small size. AND I've had the local florist take flowers every month. I set it up for a year. A cousin who is a florist encourages us to do this...flowers while they are alive rather than dead.

Good luck!
Katy
 

My parents are overseas until after Christmas but I threw them a 50th Wedding Anniversary party in September, so I plan to put together a scrapbook of the party by the time they get back.

I will probably send them some Harry and David in January as well as it is typically 80% off then!

Dawn
 
Hmmm, I'm buying my mom the following:

supplements not covered by Medicare (several months worth)--Occuvite and Calcium/D
underwear (she goes through a LOT of drawers--incontinence gets us all eventually)
sweatpants
postage stamps
a couple of boxes of those mixed-occasion greeting cards
Something pretty just for her

Thanks for reminding me--I need to get busy
 
we've gotten tmy parents:
garden claw
handheld blender (a HUGE hit:confused3)
southwest gift cards
indoor herb garden (mom loves to cook)
movie passes
comfy leather recliner
dad loves the beach and long island, where we live, so anything related
blue tooth for their car

this year they're getting 7day hopper passes to wdw (chipping in with my 2 brothers)
hth

One of my all time favorite gifts ever is my TOBAY sweat shirt! I don't live on LI anymore but my heart is always at Tobay.
 
I know you said your mom has been ill and they don't get out as much, so you weren't certain about a restaurant GC, but I still wanted to pass on that one year my parents got my GP's a bunch of Luby's gift cards. They were NOT the sort to ever leave the house and were very much not one for spending money when they could do it for themselves, but they were tickled pink with these -- simple food, easy to get in and out.

Or if she's been ill and not able to cook much, what about stocking her freezer with one of those make-your-meal places. I know at $50/pp it will only buy about 3-4 weeks worth of main dishes, but rather then using them up every day, they can be for the days she's not up to cooking. Or if you're nearby you could give her a homemade gift card to make her X number of freezer meals yourself.

Otherwise, some things we're doing/have done for the parentals:

Dad and FIL are getting these baseball hats that have built in LED flashlights in the brim. You have to look close to even see them, just looks like a regular hat. Kind of silly, but pretty useful in a way for anything from needing to step outside the house at night to get something/look at something, for campers, people doing repairs in tight areas, etc. With these they're getting Lowes gift cards.

moveable misters for the backyard/garden (they like to sit outside and do yard work, but it gets awfully hot)

firepit for the backyard

glider/swing for the backyard (hmmm..seeing a theme here)

DVD's for old movies (Arsenic and Old Lace, Quiet Man, Philadelphia Story, etc. DH's grandfather is crazy for old westerns and they got him a box set of these).

GC to Hobby Lobby or Michaels b/c mom's into crafts/knitting.

Nice bottle of Port for DH's mom (she had told us that every night before bed she has a small glass of port and as a result sleeps like a baby :rotfl:)

One of those emergency radios/flashlight that is powered by a crank -- maybe not a an issue where you are, but really handy for my parents being in tornado alley and subject to a lot of power outages. I also considered getting them these cool rechargeable flashlights. You plug them into sockets around the house where they function as nightlight, but when the power goes out, you unplug them and they turn into flashlights.

High Tea or a play -- one year my sister took me and my grandmother to a tea as her christmas gift to us. We had a wonderful time :). Alternately, you could take one or both of them to a holiday play (once took my mom to A Tuna Christmas -- hilarious!) or buy tickets for you to take her to a play later in the season. They get the gift of time with you and a night out.

My mom doesn't cook as much anymore, but she still likes cookbooks/to watch Food Network, so I've alternately given her: Paula Deen's cookbooks, Alton Brown cookbook, and this year she's getting the new America's Test Kitchen cookbook with all of their recipes.

Police Scanner -- though you may have to figure out how to program it for them. We got one for dad thinking he'd get the most out of it, but even mom snoops with it, lol!

Good luck to you, I know it can be challenging!
 
It might be too late for this Christmas, but for each of my parents' 50th birthdays, I videotaped their siblings talking about their favorite memories growing up. I interspersed it with photos set to music of my parents from little up using Windows Movie Maker. It ended up being as much of a gift for myself as for them because I got to spend some time with my uncles and aunts and heard some stories that I hadn't heard before about my parents. My parents also loved it--it's one they still talk about.

I also think it's something that will be great to have for my own children and grandchildren so those memories of my parents can be shared.
 
I put together a box for my dad (80) of his favorite things..
it turned out not to be as easy as I thought!. sasafrass tea (found it at a health food store one year, the next year , hubby found sasafrass tea bags on the internet), bulls eye candies (called caramel rounds now), Mary janes (peanut flavored toffee bars, hore hound candies(my daughter-in -law found them at cracker Barrel), tootsie rolls (finally, something easy!:lmao:), fudge to pour on ice cream., etc.

he has all he needs. I just bought him stuff to eat he likes.
sorguhm syrup.... still looking for that!!! he likes tea, so I buy him dif. flavored tea bags., etc.

when my FIL was still with us, one year we bought him a box of steaks. he was a big meat eater, but hated to spend money on what he liked to eat. when he opened up that box of T-BOnes!!! he looked SO happy!
 
My parents are the same age and I agree about NOT getting the digital picture frame. I got my parents one for their 50th a few years ago and even though I have shown them how to use it many times, it still sits in the box.

:rotfl:I bought one for my parents in 2008 and offered MANY times to take a day and put their choice of pics on the sd cards (grandkids on one, immediate family on one, extended family on one). My mom never sorted and picked the pics she wanted. Fast forward to Christmas 2009 and what did my mom "buy" for my brother and his live-in girlfriend?? A digital photo frame that happened to be the exact same as the one I bought the year before!!

Still want to put her on the spot for that regifting but haven't yet.:upsidedow
 
thank you all for sharing. Many of you who have shared; your parents are older. My mom is 66.

Extended family has always been a sore spot for me. Both of my brothers live in large homes and do nothing for my mom. As the pre-ordained and self-imposed black sheep of the family, I am treated as scum of the earth. It's continued on for 20+ years and I'm looking to set the record.

I got my life in order in my late 20's and will not ever make up for my past (according to my family). Stay with me...I'm getting to the point.

For years we went along with the gift exchange but frankly it got to be quite too much and so 5 years ago we stopped. Just the kids.

It was then I made the decision to give my mom 10% of my take home. My mom has since retired and lives off of fixed income. She has a small part time job that she enjoys going to a couple of days a week.

When my mom needs an appliance, we buy it for her. If she needs new furniture, we buy it for her. I have learned to keep my big fat mouth shut in regards to my brothers. Their homes are filled with lots of material things but of course, come Christmas, mom has many gifts for them under the tree.

How she spends her money is HER business. I do better when I keep my big fat mouth shut (this is the number 1 rule).

I told her no more gifts to us...though we do ask her if she NEEDS anything and we can give her some small gifts under the tree. The extended family comes over on Christmas day. I cook & clean and take lots of time-outs in the garage. They sit at my table and discuss politics.

I have learned the best way to give to my mom is throughout the year. She is still with us and that is what is important. I have to sit and listen to her grief; and she cries when my brothers ignore her.

Being an adult is tough. Being the black sheep in the family can be a lot of work. But it's what I have to suit up for.
 
For the last several years, I've made my grandmother a Disney themed calendar with a different theme every year. She enjoys it because it is something that she will enjoy and can use.
 
Also, scrapbooks are nice gifts for anyone. If you're not crafty, you can always pick up a pre-done book where you put in the photos and do the journaling. Most parents/grandparents will appreciate the photos and the memories.
 
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garden claw
hth

I love this one!!!:rotfl: I once bought my dad a Pampered Chef potato peeler. but, I confess,it was really for me. he always had thanksgiving, and never had a good peeler, and I was always peeling 10 pounds of potatos with the cheapest peeler!
 


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