bumbershoot
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First, its her money to use at college. Second, I am more concerned with a debit card with $1500. on it in another state with a college student who may lose the card or have room-mates who may not be honest, then I have to explain that to my ex-husband ... her spending the money is fine, she will be spending her travel money and she won't get to come home for breaks......so move on and take your flames with you.
Where are the flames?
In your OP you never mentioned she's in college, FWIW. And you said "if I deposit $1500. my daughter will have the opportunity to spend it with her debit card". No mention of roommates or losing it, etc. All you mentioned is her, the debit card, and not wanting to put more money into the account because then she can spend it.
I'm bummed I took the time to think about the situation and come up with ideas, because you'd already decided what you were going to do. I'll never understand it when someone posts about a done deal; I always think people want assistance when they post (unless it's stated clearly that they don't want help)!