well it looks like I might not be going on my honeymoon after all

[csgsu]

me and my fiance are having problems and thinking about calling off the wedding.

 

[Nickimouse]

I'm sorry to hear you are having problems. I'm sure you've heard it a lot, but it really is better to decide now than once you're married. I hope things work out for you both, but if it doesn't you could always change your Disney trip as time away for you to clear your head and regroup.
Good luck to you and your fiance and what ever the future holds.

 

[HaleyB]

I hope things work out for the best for you. Sometimes it is just a bad match and it is always best to discover this before the wedding. Other times, though, it is the added stress of the wedding, fear of the unknown, and a host of other things. My husband and I had a pretty bad time about 6 months prior to our wedding, but we worked everything out after a few months and have been married forever now. Okay not forever, but 10 years.

Good luck.

 

[zurgswife]

Good Luck...sometimes the stress before a wedding will cause more friction....just try to decided weather it is due to the wedding/commitment or the person....

 

[csgsu]

Someone said that they cheated with them? Thats the ig hang up so its a pretty big deal, but thanks for all of the good messages.

 

[fairytinkerbell]

Sorry to hear that...

don't want to pry, but maybe I can help- what are the issues that u guys disagree on??

 

[momxx5]

Trust is very important.


Not to belittle your situation at all, but even if you don't get married you should go to WDW - what better place to start over?

 

[HenDuck]

I'm glad the previous poster suggested you go to WDW anyway. That's what I was thinking. Nothing can cheer a person up better than Disney!

I am truly sorry about your personal situation and am sending pixie dust your way.

 

[aero99]

I am SO sorry for you! I went through something similar. My fiancee was most likely cheating on me (I will never know). But things will get better. I had to cancel the disney world/disney cruise honeymoon. But in 2002, a wonderful man proposed to me at Dinsey World out on a fireworks cruise.

Good Luck!
Melissa

 

[harleyquinn]

I would say it depends on how much you trust the person who is supposedly cheating with the spouse in question. Also how much you trust your potential spouse is important too.

Some people just can't stand to see others happy. Question your fiance about it! You could hire one of those privite eyes that you always see on talk shows.

 

[Micca]

I agree with Momxx5...no matter what, go to WDW. Hope all works out(which it will!)

 

[Sunbeamblue2002]

I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I must say though that Disney or no Disney marriage is a big thing and takes alot of engery with trust. Most important of all is to follow your heart. Ask him about it. Then go with your gut insticnt on that and follow your heart. I went though something very simular. What made it hard was we had a child together. I had to follow my heart several times. We never got married although he beg. Now he is married to someone else and she is very unhappy. That could have been me had I not followed my heart. Deep inside you know you know the truth. The signs are always there no matter what anyone else says or claims they saw or have done. Just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. Good Luck with your future. Grab your best girlfriend and have a starting over celebration at Disney. Just be true to yourself and all else will work out.

 

[helenabear]

I have to say trust is a very very big deal. I can't trust what others say about my husband, but if he said he didn't cheat I would have to trust him on that. If you can't trust him on that, you either have to decide now if it is fixable or not. Not necessarily calling off a wedding but postponing until you know for sure. Trust comes on all levels and it can be replaced (I know for sure it can be rebuilt). Just wishing you all the best... and I say go to WDW with a friend if you do call this off. Wishing you both all my best

 

[Pembo]

Go to Disney either way. And follow your instincts. Good luck!

 

[chell]

 

[Sheree Bobbins]

It must be tough but think how much worse it would be if this situation happened after you got married. Cold comfort, I'm sure. I wish you the best.

 

[Dan Murphy]

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[gymnasticsmom68]

To be honest, I'd be more worried about calling off the wedding than the honeymoon.