Laura, when is your wedding? I just got back from DD's(melmel) wedding last Tuesday. We had a welcome Wishes Dessert Party at the marina at the Grand Floridian. It was wonderful & very inexpensive. We had 11 people but the area could easily hold twice that many. It was very relaxed, away from the crowds, with a good view of the fireworks across the lake. Our menu was very simple since it was 8:30 & everyone had already had dinner earlier: fruit & cheese platter followed by a dessert platter of french pastries & small chocolate eclairs (so yummy). We had plenty of desserts left over. We had one Cindy's slipper as a center piece, coffee, tea & soft drinks. Oh, & we had a BUTLER (very cool), he set up tables & chairs & served us our treats & went to get us anything else we wanted. It started at 8:30PM. Wishes went off that night at 10PM (time varies with park closing times). The whole thing cost me about $350. If you want Wishes music piped in it's about another $300 I think. It was a beautiful night, a little chilly, so we took our coats. The hot chocolate the butler went to get for us helped a lot. If it had rained, they would have moved us inside. There is no view there, but they said they let you know when Wishes is about to go off & people go out side long enough to watch. I think the same thing happens with Illuminations.
It was not as elaborate as Janet's, but it fit easily within our budget & everyone loved it. We booked the whole thing through Private Dining at the Grand Floridian.
HTH
Eve