Hi again!
I saw that you planned to check out STVS and I wanted add one MORE thing...ok, maybe a few things!
Stan's Sneak peaks on his web site are just ceremony coverage and, in my opinion, don't give a fair representation of what the final edited product looks like. I believe Stan and his wife put those sneak peaks together very quickly immediately after your ceremony and make them available online within 24-or 48 hours. In some cases, you even have them ready to show right at your reception! You should definitely ask for a DVD sample of an "actual" wedding video from Stan (or anyone you are considering for that matter) to see what the final product truly looks like.
Again, may videographers post their "summary" edits on their web sites (because they are flashy and fun and you are not likely to sit through someone's 45 min video!), but it's important to know what you actually pay for and get as a final product. Most companies are willing to drop a DVD sample in the mail to you so you can see the real thing.
Lastly, much like choosing your photographer, I think its important to talk to the video vendors, learn about their style, flexibility, etc. You may feel comfortable leaving the editing entirely in their hands, or you may prefer someone who will use your music choices and offer you previews at different stages of editing. I found it important to "interview" the videographers to learn about how they work. This helped me feel comfortable with our choice.
Good luck! Video is a tough one to decide on. We really toiled on it for some time because of the cost. I hope it ends up being worth the money (for you and me both!!)
Leah