Hey Sophie
I totally agree about going with your gut on this one. I'm getting married in WDW so I post alot on the Weddings and Honeymoon board. In my planning journal I had a similar predicament, except I paid the deposit of £200 on the first dress. I tried it on and although I did love it, something wasn't right. It was an off the rack dress, and I had to lose some weight to get into it properly but my mum agreed it was beautiful. I paid the deposit the next day over the phone. A month went by and I was still looking online for the dress of my dreams, I decided to go into my local bridal salon on the off chance. In my head I knew I wanted a fuller skirt and the original dress just didn't have this, it was bugging me so much.
I walked in, and there it was on the hanger, my dream dress. I asked to try it on and I was speechless, it was everything I had wanted in a dress. I asked her if I could get my mum to come in the next day for her opinion so the next day she did and she absolutely agreed it was 'THE DRESS'. I paid £200 on the spot and cancelled the original dress. The original shop tried to say I owed her the rest of the money but as I didn't sign anything and it was off the rack she couldn't charge me. She even tried to get me to pay for dry cleaning as there was fake tan marks on the dress before I tried it on
The shop owner of my new dress is wonderful, she is so friendly and is even lending me the underskirt for my whole 3 weeks in Florida at no extra charge.

She will do all alterations including adding a sash for £50, which is a bargain.
Here is a pic of my new dress: This is not me, as my dress had to be ordered and it's due in the end of July. I don't have a pic of the back unfortunately, it is absolutely gorgeous, it has a really long train and there is white roses at the back which I am having accented with black and gold leaves, I am also having a black sash right down to the ground.
The point of my long tale is, make sure you are truely happy with your choice, I lost my £200 which would have came in really handy right now. However I am now so happy with my dress, you'll know for definate when you find 'THE DRESS'
