We celebrated dd's 1st b-day at WDW(and lived to tell about it!)*EPILOGUE p.6, #81*

Epilogue

Ah, so it’s been 1 month, 2 weeks, and 2 days (but who’s counting anyway?) since we arrived home from our magical WDW vacation. It seems like it was a lifetime ago already.

Since we have been home Kylie has literally changed from my sweet little baby into my sweet, keeps-mommy-on-her-toes, toddler. I swear it just happened overnight, pretty much since the day we got back. Okay, so I guess there were signs but I chose to ignore them and live in denial of my baby leaving infanthood for as long as I could.

The day after we got home she had her yearly check up with the pediatrician. We were told she was a bit underweight for her height and age but no worries. She’s a healthy, happy child and I refuse to stress about it since I know she eats plenty. She has been off formula since the week after we got back and a few days after that we got rid of all of her bottles and she never even noticed. She is quite fond of her sippy cups. I was surprised at how easy the transition was. Unfortunately, trying to get rid of that freakin' pacifier has been no picnic! We have decided to just wait and try again in a couple of months. It's just not worth the power struggle with her right now.

She has changed so much in the past month it’s unreal. She started walking a few weeks ago and is just all over the place now. She is starting to say quite a few words. I think she can say somewhere between 10-15 words, although some are easier to understand than others. She is now brushing her own hair and gets mad if she sees me brushing my hair. I immediately have to hand her the brush so she can make herself look pretty as well. She is very awkward with the brush but my little diva is quite proud of herself while she is doing it!

She has begun giving hugs and even says, “Awww!” when she does it. It is because when she first started giving out hugs we would say, “Awww!” because we thought it was so sweet. She has decided it is worth repeating that everytime she does it now which makes it even sweeter! Yep, she knows how to manipulate me as well as anyone else!

She has become increasingly interested in her Touch and Feel books and wants me to read them to her constantly. When I finally get tired of reading them, after the 65th time of doing so, she will sit in the floor and flip through the pages and talk as though she knows the words. It is quite entertaining to listen to a 1 year old try to read a book!

She has been clapping since our 1st day at WDW and recently she has begun to blow kisses. She likes to play “hide and seek” now and will hide behind furniture, behind the curtains, in the hall, you name it. She will wait till we say, “Where’s Kylie?” in a sing-song voice and then she will dart out of her hiding place with a huge grin and start giggling at us. She does this to the point of exhaustion with dh and me all day long! It is rather cute the first 2000 times though!

We were very worried about how sleeping with me while at WDW would affect her once we were home. Fortunately, it hasn’t hurt her sleeping habits one bit. We put her down in her crib at 9 p.m., give her “binky”, cover her with a blanket, turn on her Winnie the Pooh mobile, tell her goodnight, close her door, and she goes right to sleep! If anything, her sleep habits have actually improved since returning home. She has always slept just fine in her own room and in her crib at night. BUT she always took naps in the bed with me. That is, until we returned home. Now she refuses to sleep with me and will only take naps in her crib. She has even started letting us know when she is tired. When she is sleepy she will come to me and lay her head on my leg. I’ll ask if she wants to go “night-night” and she will reach her arms up toward me. At night, she does this with dh as he is the one that puts her to bed which is her choice. Afterall, she is a spoiled daddy's girl!

Yep, my little girl has magically morphed into a toddler! I knew it was bound to happen but I didn’t expect it to happen so soon! She is still the sweetest little thing though and I am now in denial that she will one day throw a huge temper tantrum and display “terrible 2” moments. Please, don’t ruin my delusional fantasy! I want to live in my fantasy world a while longer! Anyway, that is the update with Little Miss Center of Attention for those that might actually care!

As far as me, I did the same thing I do after every WDW trip…I obsessed on when we would take our next trip, where we would stay, what we would do, etc., etc., etc. I do that every time though until the freshness of the trip finally starts to wear off. I go through big-time withdrawal upon first returning home. It usually goes away somewhat and it now has. I know, I know! I should be banned from the DIS for even saying that, right?! Well, anyway, as of last month I had our next trip planned for Kylie’s 2nd b-day. I knew where we would be staying, what we would be doing, where we would be eating, and when we would be leaving. It was just a matter or waiting until next year!

However, as is often the case, the novelty of the trip has started to wear off and now I am thinking along other lines. The trip to WDW was really expensive and we really should have put the money toward better uses but I figured Kylie only turns 1 once, right? Okay, so that was my excuse. Dh and I just really, really needed to get away so it was a good use of the money this year in our eyes. However, we aren’t really sure it would be a good idea to go again next year. It’s a huge chunk of change and we are currently only on 1 income since I quit my job to be a SAHM. We make it just fine but we really have to save and use income tax money to go to WDW. So we decided WDW is out next year.

Then, a few weeks ago I started really getting baby fever. This brought on the huge, “When Should We Have Another Baby” debate. I was starting to think a 2 year spacing would be good between Kylie and her future sibling as I have always wanted my children somewhat close in age like my brother and me since we are and always have been really close. Dh was thinking a 3 year gap was better. Then, he changed his mind and said 2 would be better so they would be closer in age and have more in common. BUT I had changed my mind and decided 3 would be EASIER on ME!

SO, we then decided we would probably start trying for another baby summer of 2007 (and aim to have a spring 2008 baby) so we should take one last vacation as a family of 3 in the Spring of 2007. We still didn’t want to go back to Disney because of the whole “too much money” factor though. So we thought, hmmm, how about St. Augustine? I have been twice since dh and I were married. I went with my mom and brother in 2000 and again with just my mom in 2004. I absolutely love it there and have been trying to convince dh into going for years! He has finally decided he’s into the idea.

Okay, so overall what have we decided? Well, it’s still about 10-11 months away so this is not set in stone by any means, but as of right now we are thinking we will go ahead with the St. Augustine plans. We are thinking about going mid-May and spending about 5 days there. That will leave us money to put in savings and to pay off several bills as well. Pretty responsible of us, huh?

As I have said though I really don’t know what the future holds. As of right now I am not sure how Kylie would react to having a sibling since she is used to being the center-of-attention but that may change in a few months. We might decide to go ahead and have another baby next year after all. I really don’t see that happening at this point but I really can’t predict the future so I am not going to say it won’t happen and then have to eat my words later. KWIM?

That is the plans with us for now in case any of you were wondering.

As far as our trip in May, what can I say?! I had so many people, including my own mother, give me a hard time for choosing to take a baby to WDW. They said I was crazy, she wouldn’t remember it, it would be too much for her, and we wouldn’t have any fun.

Were we crazy? Well, sure, we are a little crazy. Anyone that has ever met us can verify that but I don’t think we were crazy to take her to the World. Will she remember it? Nope, probably not. Dh and I will though and we took so many pictures that I am sure she will enjoy seeing when she’s older. And she really had fun in the moment and that’s what counts. Was it too much for her? Nope, not by a long shot! She actually was up to doing more than we had ever anticipated and was all smiles most of the trip…not counting that awful Fantasmic fiasco (but we won’t dwell on that)! Did we have any fun or was it as awful as people said it would be? I can honestly say it is by far the best trip we have ever taken!

Kylie was really such a delight and we learned to slow our pace to match hers. We did things that we knew were baby friendly. We had so many “firsts” of our own on this trip since we relaxed more. We resort hopped to see several different resorts. We ate character meals which were so much fun and I would never have thought they would be. We took time to see all of the many ducks that Kylie adores. We had time to sit and relax and people-watch and enjoy the breeze. Overall, we just relaxed and enjoyed the smaller things more. I love the “go, go, go” mentality that I usually have as well but this was even better! It was so nice to not feel rushed and we owe that all to “making the mistake of taking a baby!” So was it worth it? Um, yeah, it was worth it times 100!

And before I forget, thanks to everyone who has followed along with this trip report. Thanks for the compliments and the feedback. It was nice to share this with you and hopefully in about 2-3 more years (depending on how our plans go or change!) I will have another TR to share with you…only this time it will be with a preschooler (Kylie) and a 1 year old (future baby #2) if all goes according to plan! Until then, enjoy that Disney magic and never fear the thought of taking an infant to the World. It is one decision I will never regret!
 
Tasha,
Great TR :woohoo: ! I can't tell you how much I enjoyed it. I can't wait to take my little princess: in a few months.
 
thank you so much for sharing all of that!! wonderful trip report and great closing...

I will be doing one for ya here in a few months... going out for the free dining :thumbsup2
 

the photos say it all.......I loved your report and your little princess.......she is adorable. Thanks for taking the time to show us all that this is waht Disney is all about.....
 
Hi! Tasha... I would just like to say thanks so much for sharing something as special as your daughters 1st b day with us... Your daughter is a true little princess and I really enjoyed the pics of your family... Its been a real blast reading your t.r and I found it hard for me to part away from my comp while reading it.. Now that ur t.r is complete what ever shall I do.. :sad2:
 
Oh, wow! I am very honored to see another Tasha on my thread! ;)

Thanks again for reading and commenting, everyone. I hope you all know that your kind words definitely made sharing our adventures all worth it! :)

ETA (July 4, 2006): I have decided to leave the pictures up for a while longer since there are still people reading this thread.
 
Hi Tasha :wave:
Thanks for the beautiful epilogue. I remember that i turned around one day and my youngest baby all of a sudden just wasn't a baby any more, it really does sneak up on you. Those photos say it all about the fabulous time you all had together, her smile would light up a room :goodvibes
Good luck with all your future plans and will keep an eye out for a trip report around 2009 ;)
Much love and pixiedust, Claire xx
 
Hi!
Sorry your TR came to an end!

BTW - I have heard an easy way to get rid of the Binky is to cut the rubber part off...she will soon become disinterested. My baby uses one and I haven't tried this yet but plan to soon!
 
Hi, lillygator! Thanks for the tip about the binky! She has actually bit a hole into her binky with her teeth twice in the past and she screamed bloody murder until we replaced it. I am not sure if cutting the rubber tip ourselves would end up the same way as when she punctured it with her teeth or not but anything is worth a shot, right?! I think we will be trying to take it away once more when she is about 15 months (only a little over a month from now) and see how it goes. We will probably end up trying that just to see if it works. Thanks again! :) And wish us luck!
 
Great ending Tasha! We got the same flack for taking DS last year when he was 21 months, but we would do it again in a heartbeat (obviously, since we took the baby this year at only 9 weeks :teeth: ) Just like you said, we knew he wouldn't remember it but we would! This year was a different story- he hasn't stopped talking about how much fun it was, and he pretends to ride Pirates (did I raise him right or what!), IASW and Winnie the Pooh all the time. Oh, and every plane that flies overhead is going to Disney World of course. That'll be Kylie next time!
 
great report and your daughter is a doll. whenever the debate comes up about how young is too young for disney we should point them to your trip report. even if she wont remember it - you sure will!
 
Thanks for the great report. Your daughter is a adorable. I had my sister read it and now she is going to join us in January with her family. Her twins will be 28 months. I just kept telling her they would be fine and my parents will also be there to help. :)
 
Wow, i think that was one of the best trip reports i've ever read. The end brought a tear to my eye. I think it was because when we went last year it was the week before my youngest daughter's 1st birthday. And oh the memories we will have forever, and the pics we will be able to show her. My 1 year old loved the ducks too. And our next trip is planned for November 1-8 2007., so my baby will be a preschooler.
 
Great report! I'm planning a trip with my DDs and your trip report gave me some tips for touring with young ones.
 
Tasha --
Great TR! I LOVED seeing all the pix! Congratulations on creating such an awesome journal of your trip. You definitely have to cut and paste it into a document to save for Kylie. We took our kids to the world when DD was 5.5 and DS was 9 months old. He swears he remembers the trip even though we know he couldn't really. I think he has seen the pix and video so many times that we have imbedded "memories" in his brain! :teeth:
Thanks again for taking the time to share so much detail. You've actually convinced me to try Rose & Crown on our next trip!
 
I am really happy to hear that my report has inspired others to take their infants/toddlers to WDW. I have no idea how it is with a child over 1 but I know 1 and under is rumored to be the easiest age to take them. It was definitely easy for us and I definitely recommend taking them this young. And bonus: They are FREE at this age! ;)

Kylie is starting to get into that fussing to get her way or fussing when she doesn't get her way phase so who knows how she will be at 2?! I guess we will see what it is like vacationing/traveling with a 2 year old when we head to St. Augustine next May! Wish us luck in advance! ;)

Cam~ I have all of my report saved in a Word document. My printer seems to have gone bezerk and isn't printing. I guess I need a new one. I plan to print this out for her and save it for her so she can read it when she is older as well. Of course you see how long it is! I will have to stock up on some printer paper! And, yum...Rose and Crown Pub!!! The grilled steak is delicious! And so is the fish and chips (and I normally don't like fish)! I'm drooling here!

Thanks again everyone! :)

ETA: Pictures have been removed as of July 22, 2006! I hope you all were able to see them before I took them down! ~Tasha
 




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