WDW Without the Kids? What Were We Thinking?

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DW and I went down sans children a day early (1/19/05) for our 3 night Anniversary Stay at the WL. We decided to stay Wednesday at POR to check it out and see if we wanted to bring my parents and the children there this May. We stayed in the Mansions. They were nice. The room was almost exactly like POFQ. Clean, newly renovated. The only difference I notice was a darker privacy curtain between the sinks and the bedroom.
We arrived at POR about 5:30, checked in with no problems and no AP in hand (they never even asked for my voucher), drove over to the Mansions, parked in front of our room, unloaded, and headed over to Magic Kingdom to pick up APs and catch Wishes.
It was so weird walking into MK with no diaper bag, no stroller...I felt naked. "Hey, where are the kids?" DW better call her mother and let her know we made it OK and make sure they're behaving.
Getting our Annual Passes wasn't too much of a hassle. The Ticket Center of course was closed, so we took the monorail over to MK. They misspelled my last name, voided that pass tried again, and then misspelled DW's first name. This after copying the names from our Drivers Licenses. Are the kids learning anything in school these days? Maybe the CM had ADD and just couldn't pay attention to the name on the DLs long enough to copy them, who knows? I gave her the benefit of the doubt and kept my patience, we were at Disney after all, I was not going to get upset...yet.
Finally, APs in hand, we head for the gate. Oh no, they're finger printing/scanning/imaging, or something. There goes my anonymity. "Two fingers all the way in and squeeze them together." Not too difficult for your average tourist, but we are at Disney. These are not your average tourists. They have places to go, Mice to see. Their minds just aren't in the game. "Let's go DW, TWO fingers!"
We make it through, now what? We don't have Knucklehead DS(6yo), so we don't have to do Space Mountain first.
"Whaddayawannado?"
"I donno, whaddayouwannado?"
"I donno."
We're lost. No miniature guides to dictate where we go next.
It's all a blur. We had a good time. We went where we wanted, when we wanted, it was nice to a point. We could have done without AK. Stay away from the Bugs. I almost got DS (then 5) into "It's Tough to Be a Bug" last year, but he chickened out at the last minute. He was smarter than DW and myself. All I was thinking the whole time we were in the dark with things moving around was, "Thank God I didn't make Knucklehead go in this." The Primeval Twirl coaster thing was fun. We met a nice lady from Canada and her son who told us Dinosaur was a "Must do." So we did. DW liked it. I'm not so crazy about things jumping out at me in the dark. That is why we will never set foot inside Stitch's Alien Encounter.
WL was nice, and LOUD. I do not recall being able to hear so much going on (flushing, running, etc.) when we were here before. Maybe it was just that we were on the busiest side of the hotel. We were in 5018 and able to see the Castle from our room. WL had placed a Anninversary Card, some balloons and chocolates on our bed. It was a nice touch. WL is a beautiful resort, but I think it may be time to freshen up/renovate the rooms. Also, I got claustrophobic every morning I went down to the food court to fill up my WL Coffee Mug. Everything else about the resort was wonderful, the lobby, the transportation (esp. the boats to the Contemporary and MK), the little almost hidden sitting areas on the upper floors of the lobby.
And I love Artist Point. DW not so much. She's more into Cape May. We trade off. I pick one night, she picks one night, and we agree on something the other. My pick this trip was Flying Fish over at the Boardwalk. I had the Mahi Mahi which was delicious, and DW had the Charred Steak. I guess she missed the part on the menu that said it was "Charred" because at first she thought it was burnt. But when you cut into it, it was nice and warm and pink. The food was very rich and very pricey. We almost never spend $100 on a meal and that's with kids. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention the Lobster Bisque I had ,"yada yada yada" (for you Seinfeld fans)...it was pleasantly spicey.
Anyway, back to the parks. We loved Mission Space last year, but for some reason this year we almost got sick on it. I hope this doesn't mean we're getting old. We'll have to try again in May. We also did Test Track, and it didn't break down the whole time (10 minutes) we waited for it. This was only the second time I had ridden it, because the past couple of years we've come, it's either broke down while we were waiting in line, or the line was too long, or the Fast Pass Return time was not convenient to our dinner plans etc. But no ride at WDW beats the rush of Rockin' Roller Coaster. It's just a great roller coaster with a great soundtrack sung by a great band.
While we were waiting in line to ride it one last time on Saturday, the CM announced over the PA system that the next train would be "unavailable." The "unavailable" train then came through the station partially filled with Manny Ramirez and his family/entourage. Being huge Red Sox fans ever since Wilmington, NC's own Trot Nixon joined them, I believe we were about the only people in the room who recognized him. DW wanted to try to get a picture of him, so we rushed off the coaster after rocking to "Sweet Emotion" and tried to find Manny. We were told by two "guys" (and I use the term loosely) at the exit that "whoever he was, they just left." I inform them that that was Manny Ramirez of THE WORLD SERIES CHAMPION RED SOX, and one of them actually said "whatever" like a pre-teen girl.
Anyway, we had a good time, but mostly we missed our kids every moment we saw a family doing something we knew we would be doing with ours this May. We just have to stretch Knucklehead so he can ride that Twirling Coaster thing at AK.
 
It is strange going with no kids.......the first time we went was without our daughter and her two children. I kept on hearing gramma or mama and I thought what ......who wants me ..hahaha......thanks again for your report
 
Thanks for posting your trip report.

DH and I have said before that if we ever did WDW alone (sans children), we would spend the whole trip talking about the children and missing them. "I wish dd6 was here to see the Princesses!", "Remember the year ds4 would ONLY ride It's a Small World", "The kids always like to ride Dumbo." You get the picture.

But at least you got to have some nice dinners!! :)

Mary
 
Thanks for posting. I think it would be strange. We have been many times just the 2 of us (when there only was the "2 of us") but I think it would be reall odd with out the kids.

We have been in the park twice for a few hours with out them. Once MIL and FIL wachted DD for an evening when we went to MGM (that felt werid but nice.) and then once for our 10 year aniversary, BIL and SIL took DD for an evening (over night) and we went to MK (for just a few hours) and had dinner at Califorinia Grill. Goth times we did have that strange feeling, but we knew she was somewhere close by. (and she had a week of fun, so I didn't feel guilty at all, just wasn't sure what to do with ourselves, when it was only our needs to think about.)
 

I think part of it is you all still have young children.

We just got back from our adult only trip, and had the BEST time! we are planning another adult only trip in october for the Epcot food and wine and the halloween party.
I think we only talked about the kids once or twice, remembering a certain ride., of course, we knew we would be back in July with all the boys, along with nieces for a big 10 day Disney, and Universal trip. Our youngest is 17, and the other two have been away at college for a couple of years, so we are more used to being without them.

I think if we had gone to Disney world when our children were young, we would have missed them too.
We did a trip to England for our 5th anniversary, and a non disney cruise for our 10th and had a good time, but really missed the kids.

This last trip inspired me to get all the pix since the first trip to Disney in 1972, and put 1or 2 from each trip in a large collage frame. It was really fun getting that together! It is great to see us all at Disney through the years! Seems we gravitated to the same characters( Pooh, and Jungle book). And tended to get a family picture in front of Thunder mountain and of the boys painting the fence on Tom Sawyers island.
 
Well, we are taking our first adults only (even though my kids are 17 and 20) WDW and Cruise vacation. Not sure if I'm more worried about what they'll do to the house while we are gone or the fact that we will miss them (maybe also a little guilty?).
 
I enjoyed your trip report very much. DH and I did the opposite this last trip - it was our first with children and both was it different from when we were in WDW on our own!
 
ahhh i enjoyed your report...hubby and i are going on our first solo trip in a few weeks and i think it is going to be strange without our little ones...we dont feel too bad though ..cause we were just there in december and we are going back in october....
 
I have to reiterate that we had a good time. I mean, come on, it is Disney. But, we failed to take full advantage of our situation. True, we did get some good relaxing meals in, but on the night we went over to DDT to do some shopping, which is near impossible to do with our kids, we were too tired. Neither of us got a good night's sleep thanks to our forgetfulness. We always sleep with an oscillating fan, even in the winter, and mostly for the noise. But in our rush excitement to get down there, we left it at home. So the only quiet room in the Wilderness Lodge was ours.
 
It was a great trip report. Just as a side note remember that Manny (as many many players and teams) came from Cleveland. So if it hadn't been for that he woundn't have won the WS ya know. We train um luv um and then can't aford them no more so we let um go and they win the big game. Hey kind of like kids a WDW with no parents. Glad you got to see him. Wonder if he would have still recieved that kind of treatment if he would still have be a Cleveland Indian. Oh well
 
Know what you mean about the kids. We just went for a week in Nov. without ours. We had a nice time, but I think it was too long a time to leave them. Of course the 4 YO got sick while we ere gone and I worried about him a little.

I homeschool so they are with me 24/7. It was a little weird not having them around. I just could not relax. Part of me was missing somehow. I was so looking forward to time away, and it was great, but maybe it would be better to bring them and the grandparents so there is still a chance to do some adult things at WDW.

Of course, everything was so much easier to do-that was probably the best part for me. I just had to worry about getting myself ready, etc. That part I loved!!!!
 
You're a braver pair than we! :) I think after seeing the first family with little kids turning their head 360 to get in all the stimuli that I'd hop on the first plane back. Or order dear grandmother to hop on a plane with them! :) I just can't ever see doing Disney without kids...whether they're mine or my grandkids in the future. Heck...if they won't go I'd take the neighbor's kids! :)

Glad you got to eat some peaceful dinners, though...that is an anomaly when traveling with kiddoes! :)

Tara
 
The last of our 4 children started college this Sept. I work for the school system so we cannot share spring break. My husband and I planned a trip w our 5 nephews and their parents. Adjusting to living w/o my children is VERY difficult. I know we will get through it, everyone does. But it is weird, lonely, and new. We had 32 years of children, now just 2 of us. :love2:
 
DH and I celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary at the Wilderness Lodge sans kids a little over a month ago. We have a just-turned-6-year-old and an 18-month-old, so it was difficult to leave them with grandma. The family trip we'd taken the previous October appeased the kids, but it provided us with very fresh family memories that we would recount as we passed certain spots in the World. However, I now have treasured Disney memories of DH and I that I'll cherish forever. I know exactly what you mean about feeling naked without the stroller, diaper bag, etc. We kept thinking we were forgetting something, but we were thrilled to be able to zip through those holiday crowds in a single file line. :cool1:
 
Just 85 days and then DD and I will be riding RnRoller Coaster over and over and over. She's 8 and can not get enough of that ride!
 
Our kids are all grown up now and taking their kids to Disney (usually with us LOL). I have no problem going without them, so I think it does depend on what ages they are. I love the freedom of not having to ride "kids" rides, or thinking about where they have food the kids will like (and we can afford).

About the person worried about leaving them home alone. Gee, when I called home from Disney, the year my son was 18 (gosh, can it be 11 years ago..I'm still finding pretzels), all sounded so quiet. He only wished afterwards he had taken advantage of the service some kids offered at his high school. They video the house, and come the morning after to put everything back in it's place. I knew they hadn't hired those kids within 1 minute of being back in my home. My quiet, never ever got in trouble, good grades etc son. I think I can say it's not something that was ever repeated, and we now laugh about it.
 
luvmy2sams,
6 and 18 mos. That's the ages of our 2 kids. Also, I noticed you were from OK. Where? We have relatives in Claremore (near Tulsa).
 
DH and I went for 4 nights in August for our 13th anniversary without our kids. They were 11, 9, and 4 at the time. We had just taken them for a week in February and had also been there with them the previous May, but boy it felt weird! When we walked into a park and didn't need a stroller rental was when it hit me. While we did miss the kids from time to time and said how we couldn't wait to get them back there this year and "oh the kids would love that" we did enjoy a lot of good quality grownup time... Like dinner at the California Grill (too fancy and pricey for my brood) and lunch at Marrakesh (no way would they eat that food) and jello shots on Pleasure Island until 2am (can't do that with the kids either...LOL)

In a few years, we may try to do an anniversary trip w/o the kids again. After vacationing in WDW, with so much to do, a bed and breakfast on Cape Cod would seem soooooo boring!
 
Stitch...

We're in Lawton, which is in the SW part of Oklahoma. The majority of my family lives around the Tulsa area, though, and I grew up in Bartlesville. Small world sometimes, isn't it?
 















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