Actually Marilyn, we both enjoy the time that we share in the car on the ride. We're used to doing it at least twice a year, sometimes more. John likes driving, he hates flying. He could drive day and night every day and not think twice about it. John likes to sing to pass the time by if we're not engaged in a conversation. He used to sing in chior as a child and still enjoys it. He also knows that if he's about to get tired, he'll pull over and we'll take a hotel room wherever we are.
On the way down, we're both excited and talking away. On the way home, I'm usually so tired out that I just sleep and then when I wake up we're home.
I can understand the bit about being in the car together actually.

We did drive to the south of France quite a few years towing a caravan. Twice we did it in 24 hours, much of the driving done at night when it was quieter, but then we decided to have a night's sleep on the way. John used to enjoy driving, but it is just too busy these days and that pleasure has gone.