Happy New Year All!
I have been pretty quiet for a few months. More perhaps.
What a year 2010 was! A good portion of it for me was truly horrible. Work was a nightmare, and even that is understating it. It caused me to be sick, get taken to the hospital and endless other problems. I never realized just how much stress and unhappiness could have such an impact.
My job and work virtually consumed the year.
Happily also 2010 was a case of all's well that ends well. I found a new job, a bunch of dear friends came to share Thanksgiving with us. All this happened in just the last 6 weeks of the year.
I've been in the new job for a month, and I'm very, very happy.
On a somewhat positive note, my experience with the NY company did reset or lower my yardstick (metre stick for our friends to the north) for measuring just how toxic a work culture can be. It has really made me appreciate my new environment.
Also in the last month of the year, Illinois passed a civil union bill. Not quite marriage, but it offers us further protection in our home state, which does not recognize our California marriage status.
This is sad, but reality. It was a point driven home to me when I started my new job and they refused to recognize our marriage license. I had to fill out legal affidavits for the company for our "domestic partnership" something that they do not require of other couples with out of state marriage licenses.
This means we're going to get hitched again, this time in Illinois and are starting to plan another wedding.
So, now the new job, the wedding has thrown all of our vacation plans up in the air and we have to reassess some of our cruises.
Oh well, the best laid plans of mice and men often go astray, but I'm thrilled because instead of being disrupted due to bad things, they're being disrupted due to good things.
I also want to thank you my friend, for having given me so much moral support throughout 2010.
May 2011 bring everyone much happiness, good health and dreams come true.