Was this too mean? UD: It's official, he doesn't get it.

[My Wild Love]

Another one;


I'm done. No more Mr. Nice Sonya. I'm replying "Dream off. (Other terms ) I'm not interested and now I'm not even willing to be friends. Don't talk to me!"

woah, he seems like one of those weird, stalker guys on crime shows that like think they are in a relationship with someone but really aren't.

 

[nerdylightbulb]

It just seems to me like he's trying to be nice.... Do I have too much confidence in the greater good or something?

 

[imabrat]

It just seems to me like he's trying to be nice.... Do I have too much confidence in the greater good or something?

Yesterday he sent me four IMs, two of them within the span of an hour. Today it was 3, one at 7:45 this morning. He's also been responding to EVERYTHING my bffs have asked him about, and I do mean everything. I thought I made it clear I didn't want to be anything more than friends, but I guess he didn't receive that.

 

[Captain Brain]

It just seems to me like he's trying to be nice.... Do I have too much confidence in the greater good or something?

I was thinking along the same lines as you...until I saw the last message.

Yeah, he's creepy. He's desperate. Be brutal, but don't kill him.

 

[nerdylightbulb]

Yesterday he sent me four IMs, two of them within the span of an hour. Today it was 3, one at 7:45 this morning. He's also been responding to EVERYTHING my bffs have asked him about, and I do mean everything. I thought I made it clear I didn't want to be anything more than friends, but I guess he didn't receive that.

Maybe he just wants to talk...

 

[imabrat]

Maybe he just wants to talk...

He's not really good at holding a convo tho, and he doesn't have many friends that are guys. He's a boy scout so all he hangs out with are men.

 

[nerdylightbulb]

He's not really good at holding a convo tho, and he doesn't have many friends that are guys. He's a boy scout so all he hangs out with are men.

When you told him that you guys could be friends, he probably thought that meant you guys could do things that friends do, like IM. If you don't like how he holds a conversation, why don't you start one?

 

[Fatphil32]

This thread delivers the lol's. Sorry your pain fuels my laughter. But, he sounds like he may be autistic. My brother has autism and while he's still has a good amount of friends and stuff, he's really socially awkward with girls.

 

[Sparx]

This thread delivers the lol's. Sorry your pain fuels my laughter. But, he sounds like he may be autistic. My brother has autism and while he's still has a good amount of friends and stuff, he's really socially awkward with girls.

i really think this guy is just a creeper. lol.

 

[life of the party]

This thread delivers the lol's. Sorry your pain fuels my laughter. But, he sounds like he may be autistic. My brother has autism and while he's still has a good amount of friends and stuff, he's really socially awkward with girls.

I was thinking maybe asbergers.

People with asbergers dont understand social cues, so maybe thats why he isn't getting the hint.

 

[Fatphil32]

i really think this guy is just a creeper. lol.

lol hard to say without knowing him personally. There's kids at my school like this and don't have a legit excuse. They're just straight-up out of it. A kid named Joe at my school has severe autism and he is always proposing to girls and trying to hit on them all the time. Last year I jokingly punched a girl in the arm and he tried to tackle me and started yelling at me. Then a friend of mine tripped a girl and he pinned him against the locker and threatened to fight him.

I was thinking maybe asbergers.

People with asbergers dont understand social cues, so maybe thats why he isn't getting the hint.

hahaha do you mean Aspergers?

 

[Sparx]

lol hard to say without knowing him personally. There's kids at my school like this and don't have a legit excuse. They're just straight-up out of it. A kid named Joe at my school has severe autism and he is always proposing to girls and trying to hit on them all the time. Last year I jokingly punched a girl in the arm and he tried to tackle me and started yelling at me. Then a friend of mine tripped a girl and he pinned him against the locker and threatened to fight him.



hahaha do you mean Aspergers?

yeah, i'm just backing up my creeping comment by watching what he said to sonya. he seems pretty loquatious, but you can't really tell anything without seeing/knowing him personally.

when i was in high school, my history/social sciences classes were in the hallway with the sped classes, and i spent most of my day in that hallway. there was one boy who had a crush on me, and he'd always run up to me and talk to me, then blush and run away. he had autism (among other things, this was the severe self contained sped classes) so i know what you're talking about, but this guy just geniunely seems like a girl-hungry creeper to me.

 

[Fatphil32]

yeah, i'm just backing up my creeping comment by watching what he said to sonya. he seems pretty loquatious, but you can't really tell anything without seeing/knowing him personally.

when i was in high school, my history/social sciences classes were in the hallway with the sped classes, and i spent most of my day in that hallway. there was one boy who had a crush on me, and he'd always run up to me and talk to me, then blush and run away. he had autism (among other things, this was the severe self contained sped classes) so i know what you're talking about, but this guy just geniunely seems like a girl-hungry creeper to me.

lol she needs to get the hell on the computer and accept her friend request I sent so I can see this dude's FB.

And at least he just gave me some good lines to use. Except I don't dream that much..

 

[Sparx]

lol she needs to get the hell on the computer and accept her friend request I sent so I can see this dude's FB.

And at least he just gave me some good lines to use. Except I don't dream that much..

grilled cheese boy sure is cheesy with the lines he comes up with.

 

[Fatphil32]

grilled cheese boy sure is cheesy with the lines he comes up with.

lol that's why I assumed he had some sort of social disorder.

 

[Sparx]

lol that's why I assumed he had some sort of social disorder.

i don't usually assume social disorder. i usually asume creeper. i guess that says a lot about my expectations in people. lol

 

[life of the party]

lol hard to say without knowing him personally. There's kids at my school like this and don't have a legit excuse. They're just straight-up out of it. A kid named Joe at my school has severe autism and he is always proposing to girls and trying to hit on them all the time. Last year I jokingly punched a girl in the arm and he tried to tackle me and started yelling at me. Then a friend of mine tripped a girl and he pinned him against the locker and threatened to fight him.



hahaha do you mean Aspergers?

typo..

 

[Fatphil32]

typo..

It's ok.. one wrong only makes... Half sex?

 

[life of the party]

It's ok.. one wrong only makes... Half sex?

only if you but a 24 pack of spoons .

 

[imabrat]

lol she needs to get the hell on the computer and accept her friend request I sent so I can see this dude's FB.

And at least he just gave me some good lines to use. Except I don't dream that much..

HAH whoops! I fell asleep by then. Anyway, I deleted him from my friends list but the comments are still there.

I honestly, honestly don't think he has a social impairment. He's a firefighter (he's apparently been in multiple companies) and I don't think they'd let someone with a SPED disorder fight with fire.

He's had a few "girlfriends" before, it's in quotations because they all lasted about a week. Last year, he came up to one of my best friend's and gave her roses and poured his heart out to her for Valentine's Day. She didn't even know who he was!
I'm thinking creeper or just plain old clueless.