Thank you again for the kind words. I will try to clarify a bit, about the lawsuit. The lawyer we spoke with said that without the signed paper, it doesn't matter at all. It could have been the owner's own dog that killed them, and as long as we didn't have a signed request to keep our dogs away from their dog, we would be up the creek without a paddle.
It didn't make sense to me, but I accept that is how the law is. Which is why I wanted to post our story here: I think that most people, like me, probably assume that there are laws to protect their pets, when, in reality, that doesn't seem to be the case. I am hoping that others will learn from our mistakes and get every little thing in writing, from individual kennels, to daily feedings, to prompt veterinary care if necessary.
We were told that, if we took our case to small claims court, we had about a 50/50 chance of winning, since apparently that court is a bit more lenient. However, the dogs were each only "worth" $70 - their adoption fees - so this didn't make sense for us. The lawyer also told us that, if we did this, it was likely that the kennel would then countersue us for the $1500 in veterinarian bills, and that they also had a 50/50 chance of winning. We don't want to do anything to rock the boat and end up stuck with no apology, no dogs, and a whopping bill.
More than any money, we really just wanted an apology and for the policies to be changed so that no other dogs will suffer like ours did. Apparently the legal system can't make that happen, at least not the way things stand.
On another note, we thought that our friend whose dog died while in kennel care (out in CA) had an even stronger case than ours. She had given written instructions to the kennel to not give her dog rawhide, and had had them sign the instructions. She gave the original to the veterinarian's office, but when the kennel owner dropped off the dog's body after he'd choked, she asked for the dog's file, was given it, and STOLE the paper out of the file. I thought our friend would still be okay, since the veterinarian's office was willing to testify that they had indeed had such a paper, before the kennel took it right out of the file. But the lawyer told her without the original, she had no case. She was actually stuck paying for the veterinarian bills, too.
Anyway, it was all so astounding to me that I thought I'd share. I know it sounds incredible, but this is just how things are, at least here in NC, so I hope that others realize how vulnerable their pets are and take measures to get everything in writing. If it hadn't happened to us, I wouldn't have believed that anything this terrible could be allowed to happen. Our own veterinarian was astounded and dismayed when he heard what had happened, but he agreed that the lawyer was correct in what he had told us.
Thanks again,
Heather W