Ah, but Pat that is a different situation. If the tickets were booked as Husband/MR and Husband/MR/EXTRA then he would be holding two seats under his name, linked on the PNR.
I suspect that by the sounds of your post, the tickets were booked as Husband/MR and Friend/MR. When Friend/MR couldn't travel, he was cancelling his trip and would receive a credit for the flight, minus a service fee (depending on the airline policy and the restrictions of the ticket)
For anyone planning to do as the OP has suggested, it is very important to ensure that the tickets are booked with the name to reflect that it is an extra seat - your airline can advise you how they recommend entering the name field.
I believe it is implied here, but when booking extra seats, I believe one should go direclty through the airline and explain their situation. Talk to a "real live person", not a screen on a bargin web site. I tell them of my mobility issue and size and they make note of this and have it in a permenant profile under my name and such. I have even noticed that when booking on bargin web sites that they state that the seat choice is mearly a request from the airlines and that they (the bargin site) cannot reserve any specific seat. But, the airlies can, and that is reason for me to go directly to the airlines. I pay more for airline booking, (it costs me $10 extra per seat, total $30 just to have a person book my seats, but to me it is worth it). I try my best to insure that I get what I need.
My friend who books online, sometimes has to explain about the extra seat when he checks in at the airport, because it is not in that booking format, but has so far had no problem that caused him to lose his seat.
When I book, it is as if there are three people in my family, under the same reservation, and that is how they are listed,
Last Name/My name
Last Name/Extra Seat
Last Name/Wife's name
I have found American Airlines to be very helpful, in fact since they are aware of my mobility issues, they even call me a few weeks prior to flight to go over any details to make sure that all is set properly, and that they can accomodate me to the best they can.
I book early, I may not get the best price, but the airlines knows my situation and things ran fairly well last time.
I recommend that if
anyone has any special needs that they book direclty with the airlines (or maybe through a
travel agent who can talk directly to the airlines) and get it sorted out well in advance to avoid last minute problems. Also, if you have special needs, in order to make sure that those needs are met, it might be a good idea to book early. I may not always get the best price, but I look at what is most important to me... The best price, or having my needs met?
When I started this thread, I thought I might be helping some folks. I did not start this thread with the idea of starting a controversey, it was in the spirit of help. But judging from some of the responses, I am almost sorry I started the thread, it has turned into a can of worms. I feel that one person even accused me of taking something from them because I book early and make my special requests known in advance. I really, really hope that it is not all like this, I hope that I have helped others, I hope I have helped even one person have an easier time. If that is so, then maybe this is all worth it.
IHTH
Andy