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IMGONNABE40!

<font color=green>Okay, I already am 40, but if I
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Have we become so far removed from the meaning of Christmas that we can't just be thankful that we have people that love us at Christmas? I know I don't have to open the "bad gift" threads or the "bad relative" threads, but it seems to me that we should be grown up enough to be grateful for what we have and not get so dismayed that gifts and people did not meet our expectations.
 
Obviously you've never spent 5 minutes with my MIL
:rotfl:
 
IMGONNABE40! said:
Have we become so far removed from the meaning of Christmas that we can't just be thankful that we have people that love us at Christmas? I know I don't have to open the "bad gift" threads or the "bad relative" threads, but it seems to me that we should be grown up enough to be grateful for what we have and not get so dismayed that gifts and people did not meet our expectations.

I think it's called conversation ;)
 
IMGONNABE40! said:
Have we become so far removed from the meaning of Christmas that we can't just be thankful that we have people that love us at Christmas? I know I don't have to open the "bad gift" threads or the "bad relative" threads, but it seems to me that we should be grown up enough to be grateful for what we have and not get so dismayed that gifts and people did not meet our expectations.
YEP!!
 

I know I shouldn't whine, and I am guilty for posting on the thread. My reason-i guess I just feel so let down-it just makes me realize how little the family really knows me.
 
I had a wonderful Christmas and I'm very happy to have my hubby home and not working for a few days. It's been a great few days of family time.
We didn't buy each other much, just a few things.....Tim calendar for me of course and a few dvd's he wanted. The rest was all for our dd soon to be 6.
She woke up Christmas morning and came running in our room exclaiming " Mommy, Daddy I can't get the tree lights on because of allllll the presents " It was priceless lol. She got a lot of games and Barbies and she was over the moon happy. That made the holiday.
 
Oh please, people whine and complain on here and everywhere about anything.(myself included) Why should Christmas gifts be any different??

I'm sure I've heard a whine or two about Disney trips.... ;)
 
Kudos to anyone who is grown up enough to accept whatever is "tossed" their way...
I posted today on the gifts my family received from my in-law's and you know what, if their gifts had even shown even one small detail that they knew or even cared anything about my kids then I would appreciate it a heck of a lot more.
So I guess my post earlier today was more about why buy gifts for people that throughout the year you don't even take an interest in their lives?
A nice visit or phone call at Christmas or anytime through the year would be much better than a gift showing that you know nothing about the individuals you have bought them for!
 
The reason I come here to complain is because I have nowhere else to go to complain. My parents basically say suck it up and my friends are so tired about hearing about my uncle's girlfriend. Everytime I bring it up with my grandmother, we get into a fight over it. I come here to get some unbiased opinions about things. The people on here, although I consider yall like my friends, don't really know me nor anybody that I complain about (it usually is my uncle's girlfriend). I must say, however, that I am very grateful that I have both of my parents as well as my grandparents to spend the holidays with. Not many of my friends have that. Some of my friends don't have grandparents that they are close to. Some don't have both parents. And some don't have parents that they are close to. Especially this year, I am really realising how lucky I am, not only that I have a family that I am fairly close to, but also that I am lucky enough to wake up Christmas morning and see many gifts under the tree and that I have everything I need and usually everything I want and that I am able to go on vacation multiple times a year. A week or two ago, there was a local state trooper that was killed in the line of duty. He was shot twice during a routine traffic stop. He left behind 2 kids (a daughter my age and a son a few years older than me). When I think about that family, I realize how lucky I am.

So, to sum it up, I do complain here, but I also realize how lucky I am to have everything I need and want when some people don't even have what they need.
 
Duckfan-in-Chicago said:
Someone should start a thread whining about all this whining! Oh, wait...nevermind.

Listen, Woman... :rotfl2: :rotfl2: :rotfl2:
 
We talk about everything on this board and bad presents and relatives are part of everything
 
Duckfan-in-Chicago said:
Someone should start a thread whining about all this whining! Oh, wait...nevermind.
:worship:

I guess in a perfect world everything would be perfect and we would all be perfect.
 
If I can't vent here, then where can I vent? I'm sure my Dr. would tell me to not let it stay all bottled inside. It is not healthy. And I want to stay healthy. So, I vent. I can vent here b/c no one will get their feelings hurt b/c I don't like something someone else did or didn't do.

I sure can't vent very well to DH about MIL or SIL. He gets rather defensive of his family. So, I vent here.

And I like reading the vents b/c I have similar situations and wonder how others handle them. I have gotten a lot of good advice and good ideas by just reading.

We at the DIS Boards are just one big happy family that listens and cares about each other. We listen, we offer advice, we seek advice, we vent.
 
dbarker said:
We at the DIS Boards are just one big happy DYSFUNCTIONAL family that listens and cares about each other. We listen, we offer advice, we seek advice, we vent.


I think (with a small edit) this is true. ;)
 
Mom2Ashli said:
:worship:

I guess in a perfect world everything would be perfect and we would all be perfect.

But then we wouldn't need Walgreens.
 
Thats right, not everyone lives in the perfect world where all is wine and roses. Some of us have families that stink, some of us have lives that stink and then some of us have perfect lives where everything is perfect everyday. For the most part my life is good, but my MIL ticked me off big time this year, she also ticked off my DH big time too. She felt spending all day at her friends house with her family was morew important than showing up on time for dinner with her own family. She is always a little late, but 2 hours is where I draw the line for niceness...sorry. Did we tell her we were mad? No we sucked it up and I re-heated the dinner for her and my BIL and his wife...who were with her all day too. But if I want to complain to strangers and maybe get a bit of sympathy or have someone who deals with the same thing...then that is what I will do.
 
I'm kinda new here, and I admit I have kinda freaked out at some of the vitriole in these posts...but I think its maybe better than whining and complaining to your loved ones...kinda getting it off your chest so to speak..without hurting anyones feelings maybe?

And just to throw in my 2 cents worth..when I was a teenager i remember my grandmother got me a hanger. I'm not talking a fancy silk covered one. It was a slacks hanger. I didnt mind at all, just figured shes an old lady and I was sure she thought I'd love the hanger. But I also remember my dad was upset about it. So you never know I guess. Since then I have never worried about any gifts I get...and I try not to stress about the ones I give either. I just dont give anyone a hanger. :sunny:
 


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