Voice Changes?

[Cassidy]

If your voice has changed, when did it change? I hate my voice. And I want it to change NOW! I sound so childish, and I hate it.

When did yours change?

 

[chisnpeke]

I'm 19 and I hate how my voice sounds on the phone. It sounds so high and childish. Luckily it's not the same in person. I think just generally as you age your voice changes. Ever noticed how you can tell if it's an old person just by the voice?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I didnt know girls voices...changed...

I cant tell when guys voices have changed, apperently its obvious because they squeak n stuff??

I dunno, i can never figure it out, and im too shy to ask "hey...has your voice changed yet?"
What age does it usually change?

 

[Cassidy]

I didnt know girls voices...changed...

I cant tell when guys voices have changed, apperently its obvious because they squeak n stuff??

I dunno, i can never figure it out, and im too shy to ask "hey...has your voice changed yet?"
What age does it usually change?

They do.

NOBODY I KNOW KNOWS!

Gargh.

 

[chisnpeke]

I didnt know girls voices...changed...

I cant tell when guys voices have changed, apperently its obvious because they squeak n stuff??

I dunno, i can never figure it out, and im too shy to ask "hey...has your voice changed yet?"
What age does it usually change?

If girls voices didn't change, you would sound the same as you did when you were a child.

Everyone's voice changes.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Well for females, it changes over time slowly, but...
Guys is like all at once.
Actually I know 2 guys when it was REALLY obvious.
I came into church one time and I was like "Oh hey" and It was scary I was expecting "Heeiii" (from a little high pitch voice) but instead I get "Hay" and its SOOOO deep.
It was awesome.
2 people.
Thats it.

 

[chisnpeke]

They do.

NOBODY I KNOW KNOWS!

Gargh.

It's gonna be ok!

I don't know how old you are but I promise, you'll feel better about yourself as a whole as you get older. I promise!

Is it bothering just YOU or are people actually commenting on it?

 

[chisnpeke]

Well for females, it changes over time slowly, but...
Guys is like all at once.
Actually I know 2 guys when it was REALLY obvious.
I came into church one time and I was like "Oh hey" and It was scary I was expecting "Heeiii" (from a little high pitch voice) but instead I get "Hay" and its SOOOO deep.
It was awesome.
2 people.
Thats it.

Yes gradually girls have a voice change. Guys change quicker and that is why it gets all funny sounding.

 

[Cassidy]

It's gonna be ok!

I don't know how old you are but I promise, you'll feel better about yourself as a whole as you get older. I promise!

Is it bothering just YOU or are people actually commenting on it?

It's bothering me. And im 12.

This dude, or DUDES, Chance and...Adam, I think.

One day there voices were like 5 yearoldish and now their like, MANISH.
Its so scary!

 

[chisnpeke]

It's bothering me. And im 12.

This dude, or DUDES, Chance and...Adam, I think.

One day there voices were like 5 yearoldish and now their like, MANISH.
Its so scary!

Ok, if it's just bothering you and no one else has really commented on it then I wouldn't worry. It's probably not abnormal. But if other people are commenting then maybe you could go to a doctor or something and see what they have to say.

Trust me though, it WILL change as you get older.

ETA: I just saw you put your age.

Again, I promise promise promise you will get way more comfortable with yourself as you age. You are still a child! I'm 19 and I know when I was 12 I did not sound the same as I do now. I think I still have a weird phone voice though. Haha.

 

[Cassidy]

The bad part, I sound terrible when I sing NOW.
And I want my voice to change, because I want to sound better.
AND Im scared I will get worse when my voice changes.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

In this weird way.
I dont find it scary. At first its a shock.
Then..its like "wow...your voice...i..love it...its not...annoying...please talk some more, this is REALLY pleasant!!"

Its almost like...I drool over deep voices xD

 

[chisnpeke]

The bad part, I sound terrible when I sing NOW.
And I want my voice to change, because I want to sound better.
AND Im scared I will get worse when my voice changes.

Are you taking singing lessons?

You can't get worse if you know how to control and maintain your voice.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Yeah, its kinda like doing the splits.
If you can do it, then thats great, but if you dont practice the harder it gets, and if you just stop, then eventually you wont be able to do them at all.
Same thing goes with your voice.


Actually BOTH of those happened to me.
I used to be amazing at doing the spits then I stopped and I cant do them AT ALL now.
Plus, I used to be a singer, and then I stopped for a wile, and I need time to get my voice back up.

 

[chisnpeke]

Yeah, its kinda like doing the splits.
If you can do it, then thats great, but if you dont practice the harder it gets, and if you just stop, then eventually you wont be able to do them at all.
Same thing goes with your voice.


Actually BOTH of those happened to me.
I used to be amazing at doing the spits then I stopped and I cant do them AT ALL now.
Plus, I used to be a singer, and then I stopped for a wile, and I need time to get my voice back up.

Same for me. I used to be able to do the splits great now it's impossible, haha.

 

[Cassidy]

Are you taking singing lessons?

You can't get worse if you know how to control and maintain your voice.

I don't.

 

[Cassidy]

Yeah, its kinda like doing the splits.
If you can do it, then thats great, but if you dont practice the harder it gets, and if you just stop, then eventually you wont be able to do them at all.
Same thing goes with your voice.


Actually BOTH of those happened to me.
I used to be amazing at doing the spits then I stopped and I cant do them AT ALL now.
Plus, I used to be a singer, and then I stopped for a wile, and I need time to get my voice back up.

I just hate my childish voice.
And I suck because of it.

 

[chisnpeke]

I just hate my childish voice.
And I suck because of it.

But you are STILL a child, so it's OK!

And you do not suck because of what your voice sounds like!

 

[Cassidy]

Not exactly what I meant. XD

I meant I suck, because I suck.
But I suck more because of my voice.

 

[chisnpeke]

Not exactly what I meant. XD

I meant I suck, because I suck.
But I suck more because of my voice.

You DON'T suck regardless.

Did you kill someone? Rape someone? Drown a puppy? Yea, then you can say you suck. But saying you suck just because, no, you don't.